Do you think it’s naive to rely on friends?

[malwins]

Or am I weak for needing Sb to be in my corner

[ohsheeT]

I really do think it is sometimes just for the fact that when you rely on somebody you're taking on another liability because even if they say they're going to do it and they do do it how well do they do it or if they say they're going to do it and they never show up to do it and once again it's your name it's your fault no matter which way you look at it so I'd rather just not count on anybody and just do it myself it just seems to work out better that way

[malwins]

It does but even my therapist has recommended me to get close friends

[ohsheeT]

I think having close friend is Great. I mean it's a lot of fun. To go out and do things and go to different places with a friend or a bunch of friend I love that.. but to rely on them for anything beside friend ship it gets kinda ify sometimes. I never put anyone in the position or I try not to anyway no I agree with your therapist get friends or blessed when you have the right friends

[malwins]

I mean that I’m actually an independent person but are herself recommended that

[ohsheeT]

Yes I think that is one of the cool things about you is that you are very independent and you see things in your own light and like I said it's always good to have good friends growing up I had 10 to 12 friend girls and guys and we did everything together always every weekend we were either racing dirt bikes going to the lake boating partying going to the clubs dancing lot of fun but as we got older people got married or moved but 1 by 1 we went our own ways

[Dingsbums]

Yes and no. Its good to have friends but u need to be strong enough to get through things alone also because they might not always be there

[bowenw]

I don't see a problem in relying on good friends the same way they rely on you.

[Andres77]

Not if they’re good proven friends. It’s not weak to ask for help if you really need it.

[roy_ricky09]

Well not always for everything

[EaterPeter]

Heavy reliance on anyone can enable us.

[_Just_A_girl_]

Very.