Why do so many claim that being a stay-at-home mom is such a difficult job but look down on men who stay at home for the kids?

[Rab1901]

I'm just curious. Please share how you feel, any experiences or stories

[Guy13]

It is not a manly man tradition job baby diapering and UNABLE to breast feed

[Lizsizzie]

They don’t necessarily think it’s isn’t difficult when a man does it, they just think that a man should do something different or more. that it’s not manly even if it is difficult.

[Blackcupcake]

I wouldn’t look down on a man for wanting to be a stay at home dad, but I would like to understand why he would want it