Can the life of a popular, outgoing person be just too?

[Anonymous]

I have bad luck of not finding real people that care about me. It's either getting hit on many times or fake friends.

Or as soon as someone finds out about my wealthy parents, all of the sudden they are my friend. I'm tired of fake people and guys only hitting on me for superficial reasons. It's like you got everything but at the same time nothing; emptyness.

I want someone that actually wants to know me for reason and likes/loves me for me, not because of my wealthy upbringing nor because of looks. Can our lives be hard too?

[HappyWoman34]

Hey I’m Kat 😊👍. I have about four friends and I’m a really gregarious sort of woman. I’ve had the same problems with men. If you’re pretty, smart, nice and well dressed, they hit on you. All your male friends. Then when you refuse them, they disappear. I think meetup is a good social group to attend. Try going to tafe/community college courses. Religious groups, volunteering. Don’t talk about your wealth until you know people really well. It’s not true for everyone, but I’ve noticed a lot of rich people seem to brag about their education and privileged lifestyle and expect others to become like them. Then when people get upset, they’re considered abusive or just wrong.

[Parteartu]

Your problems are valid, a lot of people want to get close to you cause you have rich parents and these are people you should avoid. Try to find people you can relate to and have common interests with.