How do women view unattractive loners who purposely avoid both genders?

[Anonymous]

How would you view them?

[DeviousD]

They are likely somewhat invisible to them for the most part. I mean if the person isn't attractive enough to stick out in addition to them avoiding people all together then they're likely just a faceless, nameless presence that blends into the world along with the countless similar plain or even just average people whom never actually engage in any sort of interaction with women at large. Somewhat like an extra in a crowded mall scene in a movie that just strolls by & has no impact on the mall or the people in the mall, merely there to create & more realistic mall atmosphere but won't ever be remembered, even by the people who own the movie one day & watch it several times. Kind of sad, but true & just a trait of modern society & it's anonymous qualities compared to formal small tight nit community living where even with those largely unnoticeable traits you'd still be known by name by the community by simply living within it.

[genericname85]

very unattractive. consider that women are looking for a father figure that is able to be a good father for their children. if you're an anti social loner, how are you gonna be a good father role?

this isn't mean to bash you or discourage you. just point out to you what to maybe work on.

[Cassie88]

That would depend on the reason (s) why they're being reclusive. There have been many times when I myself preferred to just be left alone. There's nothing inherently wrong with that.

[Asker]

People in general just don't want to get along with me & I assume it's on purpose

a lot of girls thought I wanted them sexually but I never talked to them, or even attempted to flirt or give any sort gals in the very least

They either got spooked by my presence or got very irritated & from that the drama unfolded

The men/young guys for whatever reasons always want to either pick fights with me or try to create unnecessary drama

I'm not overweight nor unkempt physically

I'm lean (not shredded), I have a "baby face",& I'm a very private/introvert type

[Anonymous]

I would feel sorry for someone like that and if I worked with them I would try and talk to them but if he’d rather be alone I’d back off.

[KrakenAttackin]

Who cares what women think, just lead your life. To answer your question women think any average or unattractive guy who keeps to himself is "creepy", but unless you give them a specific reason they can't get the police or HR to do anything.

[Adam1978]

They wouldn't view them they are invisible to them. If you take yourself out of the equation you won't be seen and probably not be missed either.

[Asker]

But they only "actively avoid" me after they pester me with some condescending sayings & "pokes" & then how easily mad I get from those attempts to irritate me

[Adam1978]

Then you haven't disconnected. You wouldn't be angry at something you don't care about. Sounds more like you have become hateful and bitter. That's not the way to go.

[Asker]

Imagine getting pestered by both genders for petty things when you're just trying to mind your own

I just never understood why I would be pestered if ther not interested in me in the slightest

[Adam1978]

Why do you get pestered by it? Your reaction can be the reason they do it. Triggering people is a form of entertainment for some people.

[Asker]

Long story, but I'll cut to the chase

My appearance "attracts" a lot of unwanted attention from both genders

I've had some females who for whatever reasons just wanted to grab my attention by behaving like complete counts/or being very sarcastic/condencending

Some smirked almost constantly when I would be around them minding my own

The men/young guys would either try to start some petty drama over trifile shit like weight lifting, gaming, or anything they relate to competition

[mobiusforniner]

They avoid them, too? I mean, by default, both genders steer away from people that dont invite warm or welcome feelings.

[rabbitzzz]

They don't think about you at all. Nobody does. You might get hit by a bus tomorrow. Nobody will care. Except maybe your parents.

[AngryCarl2]

Unless thrown into close proximity they don't think of them at all.

[LiamJHayden]

Unsure, but why will the loners care anyway if the purpose is avoidance?

[dexter234]

Some hate it some into it depends kn the person, you'll attract what you are

[In_Trance]

They don't

[RedkitMan]

described me