Why do I feel sad, thinking about if one day i’ll be dead?

[Anonymous]

Like who will mourn for me, who will miss me, who will be sad to lose me, who will come at my funeral, who will remember my good and bad, who will always remember me in their life.

[serious]

Of course I understand this and yes I am also terrified of my old age and I know one day I will be dead too. I wish I could stay young forever but I know that is not reality and so I have accepted that one day I will be dead too.

Given how I am and the way I lead my life, the way my thought process is I know nobody will mourn for me. Nobody will miss me and nobody will even I even existed on this planet. I know this won't happen but honestly I don't care about it either so it is okay. I am at peace with this.

I think you should just relax, live your life to the fullest and do what you think is correct irrespective of the consequences. The sooner you live this life you will be at peace with it.

[oliver4love]

Be happy in present and present is everything even if we plan for next minute is just a dream because no one know when we have last breath, so dear enjoy your present with whom who loves you understand you and stop thinking negative and don't waste you precious life and precious time in negative thoughts, just enjoy the present moment's..

[Mia-Wallace]

You can't "think" about all those things when you're dead.

It's the thought of getting old without children and love that saddens me. That's why I have love and I will have kids.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Well dying isn't exactly a happy topic. But I'll think about that when the time comes, because now I will focus on well being Alive.

[SnowedIn]

You feel sad because those are legitimate questions.

... but...

YOU control the answers to every single one of those questions. You get to go through life building relationships and making a difference. The responsibility is entirely yours if your funeral has no mourners.

[OddBeMe]

Because it’s natural. But honestly if you were immortal the normal highs from everyday surprises wouldn’t matter and you’d be bored af.

That’s why the super rich run for politics, or buy bigger and bigger yachts. While we are content with a bagel.

[RockyHammock]

Sounds like you're going through an existential crisis. At one point or another I think everyone has those intrusive thoughts. The key that's worked for me is to focus on the positives

[exitseven]

It is normal. I am trying to make the most out of the time I have left and try to stsy in shape to be able to do it.

[Worrying]

A dead person doesn't care if his balls have rotted ❤️

[Dinosaursandanime65]

To me it’s just a little brazy. Like, Waow. I actually will no longer exist in the “counter league” of physical one day. I absolutely fully strongly intend to make it count though.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hopefully that won't happen anytime soon!

[LiamJHayden]

That is very common.

[jimmy2]

Oh baby hang on life gets better