I can't enjoy life because I think about death?

[Anonymous]

Especially after my dad's heart attack 4 years ago, and I am now 30 years old with an unhappy life, I started to think about death all the time. And whenever death comes to my mind, I can not enjoy life at all.

Everything looks so fake to me. Like I really love the smile of this girl, she travels a lot, I like her, but even everything about her sounds and looks fake to me. And I can not be like her. When there is this reality about death, how can I be happy? I am 30 and life is too short. What if I die too all of a sudden? No matter what we do, we will die anyway.

[gorydetails]

Listen. We are here today to talk about this thing called life. It’s an electric word, life.. it means forever and that’s a mighty long time. But I’m here to tell you. There’s something else. The afterworld. It’s a world of never ending happiness. You can always see the Son. Day or night. So when you call up your doctor. You know the one, the one who says everything will be alright. So instead of asking how much time is left, ask how much of your mind. Because in this life, things are much harder than the afterworld. And if the delevators try to break you down. Punch a higher floor.

[Mamaliv]

Seek therapy! We all die sooner or later, so do you want to look back on the time you had and realize that it was wasted with worry or do you want to look back and realize that you lived? Start enjoying life, we have no control with what happens tomorrow! You need to find a way to not let your worry keep you from enjoying life.

[Lara_Croft]

Give your life to Jesus Christ. Only he can help you escape the 2nd death as power Revelation

[Anonymous]

As a psychic I can guarantee you that your dad is fine. The afterlife is far better than this place. Any psychic will tell you that.

[genericname85]

well then don't think about death xD

[RoosterBreast]

Ita not his biggest problem that he mentioned. He mentioned the world feeling fake.
It is ignorant to even go to therapy.
When do they ever address the root cause? I assume never, though I have no experience with it.
I do have experience with "fake" feeling. Which I overcame. There is something known as "ground sense". Your body wants to feel stable. If for example one of your legs is stronger than another, you will lose balance, one side will carry the weight, the entire body will extend and become rigid attempting to create forced fake symmetry. This creates thoughts. Without a physical problem, a relative dying is less significant. It's the stress hormones created by your own existing illness (as simple as postural imbalance) that make you perceive things differently. It's impossible to fix without solving the root cause.