What makes people don’t want to talk to you, and don’t wanna engage a conversation with you?

[Anonymous]

I have no issues talking to girls but if it’s with the guys.. They avoid me lol is that because i’m ugly af so they got disgusted just by talking to me? Or what else? How do you feel if a girl you considered as ugly, started talking to you in a casual manner?😂

p. s : all with guys—in making friends / keep in touch with people i considered as friends / maintaining friendships

and, i’m not insecure, because i already know im ugly but i feel like guys avoid me because my of my looks that they dont even wanna be friends or treat me like a friend just like how they treat my better/good looking friends 😂

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Replying to Brando10222 (because you blocked me, you pussy) : It’s not like you show your whole face in here anyway, ugh the audacity! Again with the non helpful input lol what else can you do other than fooling in this question and perving other users.
NEXT!

[ShiftingMonke]

If someone is interesting or engaging, I'll engage with them; I don't care what they look like or what's in between their legs. Interesting people are interesting, period. Maybe I'm just a social butterfly, but I've never really been perturbed by it.

Also I feel the need to point out, you mentioned that you were ugly 3 times in your question; knowing you're insecure is one thing, but actively broadcasting it is radically different. Not all men agree on beauty, because it's subjective. Men have preferences, yes, but they aren't unusual. If you broadcast or project the idea that your ugly, then that's what they will think of when they see you. But not everyone will think of it organically if you don't bring it up.

[Asker]

I never said that im insecure😭 But.. but why they look at me like theyre disgusted by how i look. I think i look fine, i always look proper everytime i leave my house, i smell good and dress well, breath doesn't smell bad, personality is fine and no bad reputation.
And ok i’ll stop saying ugly, i’ll change it to ‘not attactive’

[Guy13]

Social Isolation, which became vogue during COVID, shows itself with lack of friends, close coworkers, and a general disconnect often compounded by loneliness and depression.

It also functions as an exacerbating self-fulfilling prophecy in that our continuously perceived failures to relate compound. Eventually, we assume that no one will ever engage us. Ultimately we communicate that energy and people react in a standoff matter. It keeps going and going until long-term counseling is received and confident level rebuilt. It is a very difficult cycle to get out of...

[boggboss]

I wouldn't not talk to someone because of looks if thats true tho that's the reason they avoid u not much u can do about it

[Asker]

Ok i guess i’m taking it as a... deal with it 😎
I’ll just keep being nice to people so that i don’t have any enemies or people who hates me. 😐

[boggboss]

Fair enough

[Asker]

How do you feel if you were me? Asking just to know from a different POV

[boggboss]

I wouldn't assume it was my looks some people yes make friends based on looks but plenty don't so I would assume its other things have u spoken yo your friends about this?

[Asker]

Yeah i have but only with the girls so far and they said i look fine and im easy going and fun but then i was like, dude i dont even have male friends or even have one male friend that considers me as his friend. Maybe i just think too much about it lol

[boggboss]

I agree I'm doubtful your looks are playing a part in this to be honest

[Asker]

Ok maybe i’ll a better crowd irl that accepts me for whatever i look like. And i like how you're not discriminating people by how their looks. That’s what i call, a mature person

[boggboss]

Just never understood why the looks of friends mattered if looks don't play a part in friendship

[Asker]

I have heard that some people dont want to have an unattractive friends in their gang cause that would be embarrassing for them

[boggboss]

Meh thats just shallow lol

[Brando10222]

Can I see how you look? Your entire post is about how you don't look good

[Asker]

Oh excuse me i think you should focus on answering this question because this is mainly about how guys act towards me and if are here not to help me with that then please kindly leave. And no, i never ask such questions about “how i dont look good” and i won’t fall into your trap just so you can see my face to ‘prove’ you.
Also, you’re a pervert anyway, i’ve heard a lot from the users here

[Asker]

Hahaha. I see Brando10222, why did you switch to anonymous? Is that because i’m spilling the tea? Or are you protecting your reputation in this site, huh? Isn’t that too late for that😌

[Brando10222]

Cause you are rude. People these days are so insecure about their looks cause of social media. That's why I asked cause you ate self sabotaging yourself.

If I go anonymous doesn't mean you are correct. It shows you have a bad attitude and even talking won't affect you so it's better to avoid you.

I hope this answers your questions. Have a good day/night!

[Asker]

Oh he’s showing his username again!
I did say that i’m not insecure, and i never say that me being anonymous is correct. Well i believe some people these days just can’t read and out of topic. Meh.. Still not a helpful one from you anyway.

[Brando10222]

This is why I didn't reply 🤣🤣

[Brando10222]

And says the person who is anonymous herself. What an audacity!

[Wise4myage]

Attitude has a lot to do with this.

[Asker]

Why is it like, it’s always the guys that avoids me, but never the girls. I’m not generalizing but it’s just my experience. I’m not angry about what’s happening to me but i’m kinda like, confused😦😐 Feels like, we all gotta be sexy for people to want to be friends with nowadays😶

[Wise4myage]

Well being sexy is important.

[Asker]

Thanks for your input, daddy

[Wise4myage]

Daddy?

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome. 😏

[Asker]

Can you not ask me that.. 😏

[Wise4myage]

Ask you what?

[Asker]

“Daddy?”

[Wise4myage]

Sure, but why say it in the first place?

[Asker]

Saw it on a different question, said that u like it so

[Wise4myage]

Ok, thanks. :)