Older sister asking for money and doesn’t want to pay back?

[Anonymous]

Is it weird my older sister asks me for money with no intention to pay it back? I have given her money in the past and she’s never said I will try to pay you back. Should I keep giving her money?

[lightbulb27]

She's doing what she always did, it's not weird.

It's bad. If you want to give her money again with the stipend... this is the last I give money.

Or you can keep giving money on a recurring basis if she's in financial need and showing signs of digging her way out. You only get one family and its important to keep together.

Or you put the foot down.

you're call.

My family does not do this.

[Asker]

Yes and it’s also an issue that she’s jealous of me and mean and starts fights.

[lightbulb27]

yea, time to have come to jesus discussions and arguments to work out grievances. when parents die, this crap get worse. work it out now. therapist if needed as mediator. the issues probably go deep. She "feels" justified using you and abusing you.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Nope, stop giving her money, she is taking you for granted.

[Asker]

It’s not about wanting it back it’s just if she said it I would feel like she at least cares about me.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[Guy13]

Nope. That would be last time until I die and inheritance kicke in‼️

[Twalli]

If you want to be paid back, tell her you can loan it to her and she can pay you back later.

[Heolurt]

Don't lend it.