My older sister and her husband have been having financial problems and I help out as much as I can, very often.
But now I’m feeling like there’s entitlement coming from her. One time she needed to take my nephew lunch and she calls me like you just have to take it for him, his your son if you don’t do it his going to be hungry and I had money that day but i literally refused to do it because of the way she came out.
His also at a school that’s expensive and I don’t understand why they are keeping him there his sent home a lot because they haven’t finished the school fees and I told her I’m saving up money to buy a car cus I urgently need one and she goes like my husband asked if maybe you could finish off paying the school fees but I told him you said the money you have is to buy a car (then why tell me about it unless you’re trying to manipulate me into giving you the money)
Recently she had passed a stupid comment and it really came from nowhere “you think you can say anything just because I ask you for money” i really didn’t understand where it came from. And i realized she’s becoming very insecure about me giving her money (which I really don’t mind I’ll give if I have it) and I’m guessing it’s coming from because she’s older. Mind you I also don’t have a job my boyfriend is just very generous and he has a good job so he gives me good money.
Beginning of this year I even told her that I might not help out as much for a few months because I really want to get this car and change my wardrobe (I’ve lost a tan of weight).
I’ve been thinking of not helping out as much any more even after I get the things I need because it seems it’s becoming a problem that I have money and she doesn’t because I’m younger than her. That comment she passed really stuck with me because I help out and never even act like I am. And when I buy myself nice things she makes funny comments and goes like you just buy stuff for yourself not me.
But now I’m feeling like there’s entitlement coming from her. One time she needed to take my nephew lunch and she calls me like you just have to take it for him, his your son if you don’t do it his going to be hungry and I had money that day but i literally refused to do it because of the way she came out.
His also at a school that’s expensive and I don’t understand why they are keeping him there his sent home a lot because they haven’t finished the school fees and I told her I’m saving up money to buy a car cus I urgently need one and she goes like my husband asked if maybe you could finish off paying the school fees but I told him you said the money you have is to buy a car (then why tell me about it unless you’re trying to manipulate me into giving you the money)
Recently she had passed a stupid comment and it really came from nowhere “you think you can say anything just because I ask you for money” i really didn’t understand where it came from. And i realized she’s becoming very insecure about me giving her money (which I really don’t mind I’ll give if I have it) and I’m guessing it’s coming from because she’s older. Mind you I also don’t have a job my boyfriend is just very generous and he has a good job so he gives me good money.
Beginning of this year I even told her that I might not help out as much for a few months because I really want to get this car and change my wardrobe (I’ve lost a tan of weight).
I’ve been thinking of not helping out as much any more even after I get the things I need because it seems it’s becoming a problem that I have money and she doesn’t because I’m younger than her. That comment she passed really stuck with me because I help out and never even act like I am. And when I buy myself nice things she makes funny comments and goes like you just buy stuff for yourself not me.
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Also my boyfriend having money and doing all these things seems to affect her because she passes comments on that too like Eish my sister forces men to give her money or buy her gifts. Because her husband doesn’t do these things for her
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According to your description, it's not really your money. Either tell your dude to cut her off or enter the workforce yourself.
Read and understand pls. I wasn’t asking you to tell me whose money it is I’m explaining the situation. I didn’t ask if I should get a job or not
Also didn’t mention once that he is the one giving her the money. Take your time read it again slowly this time
"Mind you I also don’t have a job my boyfriend is just very generous and he has a good job so he gives me good money."
Learn to read your own description ;)
Yes so show me where I stated his giving her money directly? Don’t be dumb love. Take your time be patient 🥰
And I get a job for what? 😂have you understood what I’m saying? Or maybe you where in the class with the slow learner in school. Let me know if I should type it for you like I’m talking to a slow person
You're just taking that idiots money and giving it to your piece of shit sister! @Paris13 should check this fuckery out..
🫂there’s the hug your mother didn’t give you. Enjoy having a slow conversation with Paris. I really hope Paris at least has some kind of brain to educate you. Byeeee
Aww don't be so upset that your pretend life is a wreck.