What does it mean if I don’t like celebrating my accomplishments nor do I like celebrating my birthday?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Ever since I was a kid, I hated my birthday because everyone would touch me and everyone was too happy for me.
I hate graduations. If I have an accomplishment, I celebrate by playing video games and ordering a pizza

[Anonymous]

It's not uncommon for some people to feel uncomfortable or even anxious about celebrating their accomplishments or their birthday. There can be many reasons for this, including past experiences or cultural and societal expectations.

It's possible that your discomfort with celebrating your accomplishments and birthday could be related to negative experiences or associations from your past. For example, if you felt uncomfortable with the attention you received on your birthday as a child, it could have influenced your feelings about celebrating it as an adult.

Alternatively, it could be a personal preference or a reflection of your personality. Some people are simply more introverted or prefer low-key celebrations.

Whatever the reason, it's important to honor your feelings and celebrate in a way that feels comfortable and meaningful to you. If playing video games and ordering a pizza feels like a good way to celebrate your accomplishments, then there's nothing wrong with that. The most important thing is that you feel good about yourself and your achievements. However, if you find that your discomfort with celebration is causing you distress or interfering with your ability to connect with others, it may be helpful to explore these feelings with a therapist or counselor.

[Mynameisbobby]

Maybe you just have a low key personality. Nothing wrong with that.

[midnightmoon05]

It’s not my priority either.
here…they make such big deal with all these celebrations it became commercialized with spending money.
I totally avoid all that and saved my money and don’t want others to spend money on me.
you do you…you have other greater goals…go after them.
you can always find ways to appreciate your friends and families.

[Nikki1989]

That is fine. I have NEVER celebrated my birthday, either.