Would you be offended if a man said he wanted a large family?

[Anonymous]

Considering that having children is going to be much more of a toll on the woman

Yes, he asks too much of a woman

No, I don't want a large family but it's between him and his wife

No, I want a large family too

[SueShe]

I would personally not be offended only very sorry for the victim of your desire. Remember that it takes 2 to have children and if that man has this kind of narrow mind, it means that he does not really care what the poor woman has to go through giving birth.

Also, nowadays, it is almost a crime to have many children. Those are all potential massive polluters and are certainly not doing a favor to the planet.

I hope that this guy thinks of his wife and does not "motivate" her or otherwise coerce her to have many children against her wish.

[DaisyM23]

i mean i think large is different for different people - one person's large could be like 7 kids but another's could be 3

[Apple1996]

No me and my husband both agreed to having a large family before we got serious

[devilish-cutie]

no, he can dream, another thing is what he will get

[Agape93]

No, he can want whatever he wants. He just won't get it with me

[annabananna]

No, I don’t see how it’s offensive to state what you want in life.

[XXblack88]

no that between him and his wife.