How to deal with father after exams?

[Curious_teen07]

I had my 9th grade finals a few weeks ago. I got my result but haven't told anyone till the official date for the result comes. My father always compares my grades to my elder sisters' who got straight A*s. I dont have a SINGLE A* and he's expecting all 8 to be those. I know he'll lose how temper and start shouting and saying i wasted my time and didn't study till i start crying and he gets even madder, even though i studies so much i didn't have time to shower even.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I'm sorry. Your father should never compare you to your sister. She's a completely different person. Maybe you're good at different things? Maybe you have trouble learning something new? Don't listen to him if he says anything hurtful. If you did your best, that's what matters.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Hope you're doing better. Thanks for mh

[Curious_teen07]

Enjoying as much as i can till result comes on 8th.😅

[MementoMori777]

Damn strict parents, blame the teacher, say they don't teach well, I blamed one with an accent once, worked quite well I must say

[Curious_teen07]

Blaming the teacher isn't an excuse for them because my sisters homeschooled themselves for a year when we were in china and still got good grades

[MementoMori777]

Yea I guess that won't work I guess, what about the "I'll do better next time card" will that work? Maybe?

[Curious_teen07]

That what i said after midterms, and my result is worse now

[MementoMori777]

Yep I kinda figured you used that one already 🤔

Ooh I know leave it on the teachers desk and go home without it, then say they never gave it to you cause it's on the teachers desk duh 😏

[Curious_teen07]

The result comes online to my dad's phone 💀

[MementoMori777]

Damn school methods evolved

How bout you block the school on your dad's phone or delete the message before he sees it 🤔

[Curious_teen07]

No one's allowed to even touch how phone

[Curious_teen07]

his*

[MementoMori777]

Then no lie just take the ass whooping 😂

[Vázquez613]

I am sorry your father is so strict. I am not sure where you are from, but some parents can very strict because you need extremely good grades in certain countries to go anywhere in life. I am sorry how unfair life has been for you.

I don't know if it makes you feel better, but I am proud of you for putting in the effort. keep up the good work.

[SnowedIn]

Just say yes sir. No other response. He can't say much after that.

[sheena30]

my great grand ma always says you do your best no one can ask for more

[BrookeS]

In sorry you have to go through that