Why does it seem whenever people get more friends they ditch or forget about the one that introduced them to the new friends?

[Anonymous]

Like this has happened a lot. I’ll meet a guy at work or school or whatever and he’s got no friends so I’ll introduce him to my friends and other people. Then the second they start talking then he completely stops talking to me. Like I don’t ditch or forget about anyone literally never it’s a blessing and a curse tbh lol

[8UniquelyBoring8]

It's understandable to feel a bit hurt when someone you introduced to your friends starts gravitating towards them and seems to forget about you. However, it's important to remember that people have different personalities and interests, and sometimes they may find it easier to connect with others more than with us.


Rather than taking it personally, try to focus on building other friendships and connecting with people who appreciate your company and value your friendship. It's also important to keep in mind that friendships may change and evolve over time, and that's okay. The important thing is to be true to yourself and surround yourself with people who uplift and support you.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Because people are trash. You don't need friends

[Anonymous]

Does that really happen?

[Asker]

Yeah like one guy I met a few years ago came to a job and had no friends there and I was like hey I’ll get him some friends then within a few months stopped contact and started acting like a dick.

[Anonymous]

I know right, that happens a lot.

[Anonymous]

Nice