We were long distance and got married. I was to move here and she would keep her job.
Bottom line it is dangerous here and I really hate it here. Druggys outside the fence gangs and people just hate every one else.
She lived outside the city but we got a place close to her work. Now I have a home still and I want her to move but she is having a hard time changing jobs and leaving her friends.
Most of which would not even come to her wedding shower. They are work friends and terrible friends too. But her friends
She can easily get a job near me but is always so mad and sad I want her to be safe in my area.
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No way to encourage her sweetly?
Our neighbor just turned his red light on again across from our apartment
Our neighbor just turned his red light on again across from our apartment
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You have to talk her into moving for the good of both of you. We moved out of America because of the crime and the lousy standard of living, and our lives have improved 100%. You need to do the same.
Where did you move to?
Thanks
I know she won't be happy about it but it is better. Even her dad knows it too. But is not pushing it
She needs to submit and get on your program; her prioritizing a job or friends over her spouse is completely unacceptable. If she can't do that then you should not stay married to her and she can die alone.
Not really an either or?