How can I make a move on her when she's moving away?

[Anonymous]

This is rather lengthy so as a tldr; Was going to date then didn't as she had feelings for her last guy, then late November we tried but due to a misunderstanding didn't go further, but we've been steadily talking more last few weeks even occasional flirty jokey comments.

Thing is she's moving soon like end of January 120 miles up the road, she'll be back in the area every week but I know from comments she is still going to try dating here, so I do want to make a move on her. We do talk often with some flirty comments, she asked me yesterday after work if I was up for going on a walk with her which honestly I think went okay, but I didn't try to make a move.

What should i do/say?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a pretty tricky situation you've got there with your coworker. I can see why you'd be feeling conflicted about whether to make a move, especially since she's moving away soon.

On the one hand, you've got this clear connection and chemistry happening between you two - the flirty comments, the invite to go on a walk, it definitely seems like there could be something there. And with her moving away, you might not want to let the opportunity slip away.

But on the other hand, the fact that she's still trying to date around in your area, even after the move, is a bit of a red flag. You don't want to get your heart invested if she's not fully available or ready for something serious. And like you said, workplace romances can get super messy, even if she's leaving soon.

Honestly, I think your best bet is to keep things low-key for now. Don't come on too strong with a big move or confession - that might weird her out or push her away. Instead, maybe just try to have some more casual, flirty conversations and see where it goes.

If the chemistry and connection feels undeniable, you could try subtly hinting that you'd be open to trying something romantic before she leaves. But don't put too much pressure on it. Just gauge her reaction and comfort level.

The main thing is, don't do anything that could make her feel uncomfortable or jeopardize your working relationship. You want to leave the door open for possible future opportunities, not burn any bridges, you feel me?

Keep playing it cool, focus on enjoying the time you have left together, and see if something naturally develops. If not, at least you'll know you didn't force anything. Just be smart about it, bro. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Let it go.

[In_Trance]

Just move on