Should I make a move on her or move on?

[pickanamealready]

This girl I like broke up with her boyfriend & was single for about 5 or 6 months then got back together with him then I met her & she’s been trying to get my attention for past few months I want to make a move on her but feel bad for the boyfriend

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that's a tricky situation. On one hand, if she's been giving you signals that she's interested, that's definitely encouraging. But at the same time, getting involved with a girl who just got back with her boyfriend doesn't seem like the best move.

A few things to consider:

- How serious do they seem about trying to work things out? If it seems unstable, she might be open to moving on soon. But if they're committed to rebuilding, best leave them to it.

- Have you talked to her at all about her relationship status and why she's been flirty lately? You need some clarity on where her head's at before deciding anything.

- Her chasing you while with someone else is kind of a red flag too. Makes it seem like she might be a bit fickle or prone to cheating.

My advice would be have an honest chat with her first before thinking of making a move. Let her know you're interested but won't get in the middle of her relationship either. See what she says about her situationship and where her heads at.

That way at least you'll have more info to go off of. But for now I'd say leave things be and let her sort her own stuff out first. Her actions afterwards will tell you if you even still wanna proceed, ya feel me? Good luck bro!

[mattthefatbat]

I'm not a dating professional but I think you'll like to be with a woman that is more certain about not getting back with their ex or boyfriend. It's a good sign she's showing interest in you but before you possibly make a move on her try asking about the situation between her and her boyfriend she broke up with and if she is still feeling attached to him.