What would you write in a letter to the grandparents of your baby who dont know they have a grandbaby?

[Anonymous]

I want to write a letter to the grandparents of my baby who don't know they have a grandchild. However, I am not sure how to address the letter or how exactly do I let them know they have a granddaughter.

My baby's dad and I had a big falling out, he refuses to have anything to do with our daughter. At the same time he won't tell his parents they have a grandchild. I feel they have the right to know, but I just don't know what exactly to say to them.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I actually think this is totally reasonable, just because the father doesn't want to be included doesn't mean they dont want to be.

It does obviously create potentially difficult situations for the father but I'm not particularly convinced that there is any grounds for protecting him from the fall out of this.

Life can be difficult, you just have to try and pretend you are all grown ups i guess, its all anyone is doing.

[Asker]

Thank you

[strateguy632]

his parents are his decision but your parents write "i had a child "

[Asker]

I know his parents are his decision but It's heartbreaking knowing that my baby is their only grandchild and will always be their only grandchild and they can't have a relationship with her because they don't know about her because he won't tell them.

[RoseySarah]

Yes or a picture on social media

You can just call

[Asker]

I only met his met parent once. So I don't have a contact number for them. My only option is writing a letter.

[RoseySarah]

Go for ita