Parents of children who are old enough to date, have you ever disapproved of your kid’s partner? Why?

[gothbxtch]

[ohsheeT]

Yes I have
Every girl I know I think my son has tried to date LOL and I just found out a couple years ago that he actually did a couple of them I think that's actually kind of funny

He is always picked good girls that have good careers so that was a bonus for him

My daughter on the other hand she's at college she met an older guy I did not disapprove of it I told her she knew what she was doing and if that's what she wanted to do
I would stand behind her
I told her of all the the Plus side of it all and I told her all the minus side of it all and I said I cannot tell you what to do and I would never do that

I told her that if I meant the guy I would know if he was right for you or not and I would just either shake my head no or yes and she knows me I would do that LOL
I meant a guy as far as I was concerned he was fake
He was a manipulator he was a liar and she asked me what I thought and I just shook my head no she just kind of smiled and said okay
I never told her the reasons because she never asked me 4 months later I had to go visit her because he put hands on her neither one of them knew that I was coming my son met me at the airport because he didn't know I was going there

And told me he had to go with me because he knew everything would be okay and I wouldn't do anything stupid but he said just in case he wanted to do something stupid I would be there too I thought it was funny but anyway yeah that's the only time that I have ever done anything with one of my kids dating anybody cuz I just shook my head now and my daughter knows exactly what that means when I shook my head no she knew that there was many reasons why I was shaking my head no

[SnowedIn]

Thankfully not yet and it doesn't look like I will either. My two oldest sons are dating amazing women and nothing frustrating/bad yet.

My youngest son is 14 and would rather play Xbox than consider dating although there are three girls who are swooning over him. All three are awesome so they'd be fine.

My daughter could care less about romance but I'll let you know in a few years.

[SnowedIn]

I'm going to add that it's not my place to disapprove. I might not like behavior but not really my place to get involved UNLESS there's something unsafe like abuse or something like that. Even then it's about the situation and supporting my kids, not judging or approving/disapproving of others.

[gothbxtch]

very wise!

[SnowedIn]

Thanks for mho!

[Kelly6]

I never interacted in my kids choices

[gothbxtch]

healthy and good!

[Kelly6]

Exactly

[gothbxtch]

you sound like a good mom

[Kelly6]

Thanks
Happyness is main thing

[gothbxtch]

very true!

[Kelly6]

As it’s their partner not my partner

[Kelly6]

Thanks for Mho

[exitseven]

Yes, my son dated a girl who was really hot. I was afraid he was in over his head with this girl. She was manipulating him and I was afraid she would turn up pregnant. Fortunately he figured it out on his own. He gave her the boot.

[jeffend888]

A parent will disapprove of their kid's partner, especially daughters, until they're about mid 20s. That's when they pull their heads out of their collective asses, realize that what they're parents think actually matters because in order to have a successful life, families need to get along, and they will marry someone who fits in with the family.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope, i give him my opinion and advise him but the last decision is for him to make!

[rm_llort]

Yes. Because she was a miserable goth type and was obviously going to get him into self-harm, drugs/alcohol and satan worship.

[gothbxtch]

bro read the room 😭

[rm_llort]

I did? The second I saw the arm socks I made up my mind. Told him never to bring her back into my home. Thankfully he is dating someone stable now.

[Anonymous]

I fuck my sons girlfriend, she is 23.


I lick her pussy and put my dick in her asshole

[gothbxtch]

sir this is an arbys

[Staximus]

Kids don't have "partners"

[gothbxtch]

i mean teenage and older kids

[Kacka]

disgusting to do so