Why does my older brother always lift me up when we argue and after call me good girl?

[Anonymous]

He lifts me up and holds me if im angry and then let go after and call me "good girl" wth is that I'm not 5? He will say "be good girl now" or "my sister is a good girl".

I told him im not a child but he doesn't stop

[NotTacocaT6969]

Because you’re smaller than him and are his sister.


I’ve picked up my sister to end an argument and always placed her back down on her feet.


I’ve picked up a classmate to end an argument and threw him against the lockers.


See the difference?

[Asker]

Yes but its hella rude.. both are rude

[NotTacocaT6969]

So is arguing. 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

yes but tbh i rather have him throw me into a wall

[NotTacocaT6969]

I understand that that would be less degrading, but it would also hurt a lot.

Next time he picks you up, go completely limp.

He will struggle and probably drop you.

[Asker]

oh thats good thankyou!!

[ChiTown33]

He's older. How do you think I feel. I'm 6'5" 250lbs. And 47 years. old. But my sisters still call me thier "baby brother"😂

You're brother is older if you get to be a 100 years. old he'll still consider you little. Just get used to it.

[Asker]

You a giant tho.. you can just prove them wrong.. I wanna put him in his place..

[ChiTown33]

They're women. What would that prove? That I'm stronger? I already know that. My sister's love me I know as I'm sure your brother loves you. But older siblings always want the edge on thier younger ones. There reaches a point where you're both adults and you're kind of there already. What do your parents say? Have you voiced your displeasure to them?

[Asker]

No loll I dont wanna get my parents involved we are both adults..

Yes good for you for being stronger but im not. I'd rate have him throw me into a wall

[ChiTown33]

Well you question is a little inconsistent then. This either a problem that needs addressed or it isn't. Some things you just got to endure in life. I got a brother in law that's always got to be top dog. Is it annoying yeah. Would anything I do change it? No. And it's not worth starting a big tiff over. Sorry he does that. But you have to decide how bad it is and how far you want to take dealing with it. In the grand scheme of things. It just sounds like it's annoying.

[Asker]

Alright then thanks for the help:)

[ChiTown33]

Best of luck to ya.👍

[Asker]

Thank you!

[JackCarter]

Asserting dominance and showing that he is way stronger than you
You better submit 💀

[Asker]

Thats just rude as hell of him.. any wag to stop him?

[JackCarter]

Physically.. No you can't
My little sister constantly annoyed me and challenged me to play fight and everytime I would pin her hands above her head with mine to bed and tease her till she admits defeat lol 😆
But we were clearly having fun and this was in no intention to hurt her

So if you really feel bad about try talking sitting down and talking with him

[JackCarter]

Sorry words got a bit messed up in the end lol

[Asker]

Yeah I told him and he said "you are a good woman but to me you are my sister, a good girl". I dont like it.. I tried to hurt him but he just laughed. Its disrespectful.. he could at least pretend to be hurt.

Well good for your sister for not being me lol.. sounds like she didn't mind

[JackCarter]

Lol
Yeah it's rude to be so cocky
Sometimes I pretend and let my get on top and win
I love seeing her sweet innocent reaction
She would sit on my stomach with me lying on bed and put her hands on my chest and tease me like "You are so strong and ripped.. but still got defeated by your little sister" 😆
But sometimes it just goes over a limit and I would push ger off and pin her down and humble her 😂

Anyway it's of course rude to do something you feel bad about
Seems my sister is kind of submissive unlike you lol

[Asker]

Yes like I am usually submissive but him I wanna throw into a wall lollll. I just dont like the phrase he says..

Good that you and your sister had fun

[JackCarter]

Lol I get you.. some people just get under your skin so much !!!
And yep.. I am lucky to have a cute little sister... I am 25 and she's 15.. but still we play fight before bed if I am home 😂

Also I am surprised that you said you are submissive whereas you seemed just the opposite which is cute lol
It was nice talking to you by the way.. and I hope you get a chance for revenge one day !! 💀😆

[Asker]

Yup haha esspecially in serious moments😓😅

Thank you! Glad you have a fun sister!

And i shall give my revenge😂😌😌

[JackCarter]

Cool !!
Would love to hear a revenge story lol..
Have a good day!

[Asker]

Hahaha I'll share it when it happens.

Thanks again. Have a good day you too!