Why do people keep having kids and sex and partying all the time?

[Anonymous]

I’m at an age where I assumed folks would have grown up and come to their senses. I’ve parted with friends because they keep popping out kids, or they don’t take care of their kids (guys), they party all time drinking and drugging, they get in wild situations with folks that mistreat them and their possessions..
I’m single by choice and in bed before ten at night and keep to myself.

Are people searching for rock bottom? Like grow up

[Berethor]

You lonely, and the white people need to breed more, the world needs more white babies.

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/2/2e/Countriesbyfertilityrate.svg

[rigmarole]

People that like to party will do it all the way into their 70s. What you think is adult life, is only your goals as an adult. People live life in different ways. People don't grow up.

[sheikalana]

They don't really understand the roles of a parents or are not willing to give up partying.

[Kelly6]

some embrace party life as permanent lifestyle

[Asker]

They are coping to hide from something. It must be exhausting for them tho? 🤷‍♀️

[Kelly6]

maybe

[Staximus]

People can still have fun and be responsible. You're not 80 yet. Get out of bed and go have some fun, old lady.

[Asker]

I don’t want to party, I’ve done that already.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s escapism.

[Asker]

Please, elaborate your wording

[BarryLiverstone]

People get stressed with the responsibility of #adulting. They sometimes want to escape reality and just seek pleasure and comfort

[BarryLiverstone]

Does that make sense?

[Asker]

Yes.
But they should face themselves and deal with things instead

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s often hard for people to have the discipline and will power to face themselves. Often it’s someone else who forces behavior to change and can come with trauma and pain

[Asker]

Yeup! Well they’re exhausting to be around

[BarryLiverstone]

You don’t have to be around them