Do you ever wish you had someone you trusted, that you could share your emotional pain with?

[Miah05]

[Anonymous]

Sadly yes. ﾠ

[mandyfire98]

This is just my own personal belief but I think it's healthy to have someone to be able to talk to and trust in, to sometimes talk to about emotional issues and pain and grief. Whether that be a friend, therapist or confident of any sort. It's never good to bottle up things. It eats at you like cancer. It can then affect your relationships with people as well.

That's just what I personally believe.

I'm just throwing this out there. But if you ever need someone to talk to, not that you do, but I'm a great listener and sometimes good with advice. I'll have your back no matter what.

[Miah05]

🥰🥰😭

[ShesRad80]

im normally everyone's go to person. i can't say i do wish for that, in the end with the stuff i have been through the real deep-down shit the trauma etc i been through since childhood, i dont trust anyone

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah, it would be nice to have someone I'm really tight with that I can open up to, feel me? Sometimes a man just needs to vent, let out some frustration or hurt without always lookin strong.

It's tough out here tryna hold that shit in all the time, keep the emotions on lock. Feels like it eats away at ya after a min, ya know? We all human - I'm tryna be real about that struggle too when it's real.

I try to keep it real as possible but it's different comparin to having a ride or die you know inside n out, who gets YOU, ya know? Someone who ain't judgin, just listenin n makin shit feel not so heavy on the heart.

That level of trust n understanding is real, even if it's some mushy ass shit to admit. Maybe someday I'll find me a wokan like that, who I'm comfy bein soft and myself around without losin respect. ... Or maybe not, who knows - but that type of bond would be beautiful nonetheless.

I long and wish for a companion I would prove one day worthy for her love and trust as well for me also to be able to confide in and find comfort/warmth to who I can call my own with only two hearts merge into one is what me and you would be one flesh together who can never be apart ❤️

[FunkyMonkee]

Absolutely!! I actually DO have someone like that but she rarely ever talks to me. I asked her 2 months ago to come over and just spend a couple hours hanging out with me and, so far, she hasn't.

[DizzyDesii]

I've always had someone to confide in so thats never really been an issue. But im an open book. I dont trust anyone

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay sis, I feel you on that. Sounds like we both got trust issues even if they come from different places.

For real though, keepin yourself closed off like that can't be easy neither. Like it seems like you wanna open up and connect with folks, but after gettin burned or let down so many times it's just natural to protec ya heart, ya know?

Ain't nobody's fault really, that shits just life. But I been thinkin lately like, is it really livin if we ain't willin to take chances on people sometimes you know? Shit might hurt again but feels like it's the only way we'll ever find real love.

Maybe you just ain't met the right person to let ya guard down for yet f you know? One of them rare loyal ones who gives you no reason to doubt, who sees you for you and loves you for you to embrace as you are.

When you find that, I think it'll be easy to open up. In the meantime just stay true to you, keep doin your thing, someone worthy'll come around. Just don't lose hope, okay? We all deserv love, believe Queen!

[DizzyDesii]

@Oliverlogan263 im an open book. Im not closed off. I just dont trust anyone fully. Believe it or not, my guard is rarely up.

[Oliverlogan263]

@DizzyDesii Ah I feel you on dat, it's smart not to fully trust anyone. Like yeah you're open but also gotta protect yourself a bit, ya know? People can surprise you. At the same time though, must be lonely not having anyone you're 100% real with. I'm the same way myself but like it's good to have a balance - share what you're comfortable with but also hold something back. And it's okay if that person isn't totally "trusted", just someone you vibe with who you know won't spill your secrets. Maybe try opening up a little at a time with different friends until you find one (or a few) you connect with on a deeper level. No need to fully open the floodgates yet. But don't shut yourself off completely either, that'll just make you more isolated. Gotta take some risks to build real trust sometimes.

[DizzyDesii]

@Oliverlogan263 thats what im saying. Im not closed off at all. I am an open book. I know i can't trust anyone fully but i also dont hold back. I’ll tell an entire stranger my life story. It really makes me no difference

[Oliverlogan263]

@DizzyDesii Right, I get what you're saying. You're totally an open book with people without reservations. That's honestly really cool that you can just connect with strangers and spill your guts without a second thought. Takes real confidence to be that comfortable in your own skin. Most people are so afraid of opening up or being judged that they stay closed off, even with friends sometimes. But you seem to know that people aren't always gonna have your back 100%, so might as well just be real if it doesn't change how you are. I respect that, it's refreshing to meet someone so comfortable in their own skin. Must make it easy for you to meet new people and form connections wherever you go. Keep doing your thing boo, it's awesome that you can just be yourself openly like that without worrying about trust or what people think.

[DizzyDesii]

@Oliverlogan263 yea its pretty easy meeting new people and I’d love to be a motivational speaker at some point. One who can share my experiences with others who can relafe

[Oliverlogan263]

@DizzyDesii whattt wow that's such a cool idea to want to be a motivational speaker someday! I think you'd be really good at it since you're so open about sharing your experiences already. A lot of people probably could relate to stuff you've been through too. It takes guts to just tell strangers your whole life story like that. But I bet hearing about how someone else dealt with challenges could really help folks who are going through similar things. You seem like someone people would look up to since you keep it real but also stay positive. Motivational speaking sounds like a way you could take something hard about your past and turn it into something inspiring for others, ya know? You should totally go for it if that's a path you wanna take. Start practicing your speaking now on anyone who'll listen! I'd be down to hear one of your test run speeches for sure.

[DizzyDesii]

@Oliverlogan263 yea i’d say a lot of kids have looked up to me. Teens too. Adults, not so much lmao

[Oliverlogan263]

Lol well damn them the adults if they don't, you'd be speaking to the youth more who can relate aloy more you know and the teens. Them adults think otherwise like cry me a river, we all go through rough shit you're not the only one they'll think dat way and just plain stubborn or maybe jealous you have endured much you have shows off your strength as a woman and they despise it but can't deny it at the same time you know

[Iron_Man]

I’ve already met her. I share everything with her.

[exitseven]

I trust my wife with just about everything but I don't share my pain with anyone.

[Mynameisbobby]

I'm so lucky in that respect 🙏 I have my uncle, younger brother and my girlfriend.

[Staximus]

I don't have a girlfriend or wife to talk to but I can talk to my brother and a few friends

[Sparkie460]

I've already got that. If you're looking for someone, I'm here for you

[Anonymous]

Nobody truly gives a shit anyway, and nobody else can help you but yourself most of the time, so not really.

[Guardian45]

Yup. My BFFs died. I broke up with my girlfriend. So, yeah!

[Jmmmfi4]

SURE... BUT I KNOW I NEVER WILL

SO I JUST WRITE IN MY JOURNAL

[LavLavLuv]

Yes🤷‍♀️

[Miah05]

Same

[sirderpsalot123]

My emotional pain isn't anyone else's business lol

[Miah05]

Ok..

[BLP11520]

Yes I do, taking applications here at G@G

[Fuentes]

No I don't