Have you ever grieved someone for years and one day finding yourself selfishly wishing you had never known them to spare you pain?

[Skyros]

[Chazmatazz269]

Nope. I would suggest that that is deeply unhealthy grief. When i lose someone, i grieve darkly first. Then i focus on all of the good things that they brought into my life.

[Skyros]

You’re right and it has gotten a little easier. I have to remind myself of how she told me not to get down over her.

[leahzrc]

I have grieved the living. For those people, I have learned to forget everything I ever liked about them.

[Skyros]

Hey, would you like to be friends? I’m not trying to hit on you.

[leahzrc]

Lol sure I don't care

[Simslover92]

No because I learned and grew from it.