Have you ever wished for someone to die, and then that person died?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I didn't really wished that, but I often mused that things would be much simpler if this person just disappeared. They say you have to be careful about what you wish, because it's bond to happen when you least expect it.

[lightbulb27]

I did and yes they did sometime later. It was an instant regret when I wished that. It was so strange like a spirit came over me as a child and asked if I'd rather they live or die and I chose die because they had problems and I had an air of selfishness, but my real motive I think (long time ago this happened), was I didn't want them to suffer and I think he teased me at times and scared me, although he was a good person and I think was just struggling in life. I find that theme in my personality and life... I want to help and save others.

Right after that I felt this "spirit" lift away from me and I wanted to change my mind but I couldn't... didn't feel like I could change it or undo it. He died some time later, don't recall how long... at least 6 months. It wasn't a dream.

I was a child and he was a teen. It produced some feelings of guilt and like I didn't have control at minimum. I later in life swore to never kill anyone, which is also an oath.

This is called a curse or an oath and it impacted my perception of my life. That's what these "emotional" things do, I'm sensitive and that was impactful to a kid. There's some psychology in this... like associating my wish to their death. Reality is, they were on the edge, experimental surgery, weren't supposed to live as long as they did... was likely inevitable. But it is still wrong emotion to project, and certainly is better to project love and life into people... and thus the belief in Christ which

It's heart breaking... don't do that. So today, I don't wish anyone to die, I might say "executive" people for crimes and that seems ok (against my oath), but I don't wish people die. The better power is to put them in the hands of God, see beyond their issues, and tell "evil spirits" to go to hell or heaven.

Letting go of these shames and guilts would be healing if they exist.

[lightbulb27]

... Christ. Belief changes how we feel. Believing in life after, we are unconditionally loved, and going to a better place... which all encourages us to be a more loving, considerate, strong person in God... is a solution and a better place to come from than from the "self".
I had no sense of religion at the time this all happened. In hindsight, I wish I had that strength to oppose and challenge what I felt come upon me.

[Slingblade1126]

Years ago. I was extremely hungover and didn't wanna go to work, it was a very rough week for me at work. I laid in bed and kinda thought, "wouldn't it be nice to have a family emergency of some sort"? 20min. later my sis in law called and said my brother died in his sleep. It was unexpected, he wasn't sick. In a way I felt horrible and pissed and angry and guilty all at the same time. Later, I told myself he did his little brother one final act of kindness! He always looked out for me, so I figured his death gave me new life. After grieving and reflecting for a week, I was refreshed and continue to have good days doing what I love. I truly believe I owe it all to him.

[Agape93]

Yeap, twice. But less a wish and more a demand of sort

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

At this point I know better than asking if they died on their own or you had an hand in it

[Agape93]

If it helps, I didn't commit murder. Wouldn't have said anything if I did

[exitseven]

yes, and it happened more than once so don;t screw with me

[Andres77]

It didn’t work

[Andres77]

Actually I didn’t wish for his death. I thought he’d died so I thought then I was able to forgive his abuse…but then I found out he was still alive and my anger came back. I guess I hadn’t fir given him after all

[Andres77]

Or maybe I still want justice and him being alive means I don’t have it yet…idk

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Could be

[boobliker]

we all die in the end but no never wished for someone too.

[Heolurt]

Yes but I didn't die.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh no.

[TacticalLizard]

I wish