Are There or Have There Been, People in your Life who Have "Butter you up" for Their Own Purpose?

[Paris13]

[Dinklex3]

What? I do that to people all the time 😂

“I love you soooo much. You’re one of my favorite people. Please watch this scary movie with me 🥺”

” You’re my favorite sister. The best big sister in the whooole world. Can you make me stuffed shells 🥺”

” You’re so handsome! You’re definitely my favorite person. Pleeaaseee let’s watch this kdrama together🥺”

People at work knew to butter me up before asking for something outrageous.

Gotta sweet talk them first
Is it seen as a bad thing? 😅

[Paris13]

Arse Kisser. lol!!! xx

[Dinklex3]

It’s nonsense to ask for something without doing so!

[Paris13]

lol!!! Heart from Start!!! xx

[Chevy1_kb]

My ex always tried but a can see right through people see because av had all this done t areao me a lot I watch people very closely because of this and remember everything they say and remover what I say to them I have had people take my idea or copy things I say or good ideas I have take them like they came up with them first and and so people that try and butter me up don't stand a chance cause I know wit there upto

[Paris13]

Ahhh, That EX!!! xx

[Chevy1_kb]

Yeah what I mean is when my ex was my boyfriend he tried to do it but it didn't work it's to easy to see through anyone just pay attention to what you say what they say back how they react there body launguage how they say it I remember. Everything that happend because I either wrote it down sometimes or locked it in my head to click and remember what happend what he said what he did after how he changed his mind didn't keep his promise and I also watched him good sometimes am tha same with everyone in relashionships or not family and friends iam clued up I mite have a tiny little squint in my eye you can see when am sleepy or tired but I can see through anyone and watch these basterds to know if there upto something

[D_Bone_Steak]

I take this as a huge red flag. If I sense someone is trying to butter up my ego, I also suspect they are doing it for a reason. Then when I look into that... there is a reason... there always is.

The almost-free compliments and validation can be addicting... don't fall for it... nothing is for free. These are the same people who will spit on you once you're down. Just take advantage while you're up, but don't expect favors from them though.

[Paris13]

Good One, Near Master. xx

[DannyUk2017]

Oh yeah... in western culture is always one person buttering up someone else for some "gain", they want to get anything/everything for free but "nothing" in return.. greedy kissing @ss bastardz...😁

[Paris13]

Arse Kissers. xx

[DannyUk2017]

Lmaoo.. i could agree with you 1000% hun xx...😂😂👅😘🍑..😂😂😂

[Paris13]

I see a Master. xxoo

[DannyUk2017]

@Paris13 lmaoo...😁😁😁, Master depends in what...😉🤫

[AnusNdaPainus]

Yes every gay guy I’ve ever met and i should’ve figured it out because these were some um “ pretty boys” but they were never around girls and always wanted to hang out with me I was just happy to have someone to talk to though I didn’t care if they were gay

[Paris13]

Me Neither... xx

[Jaximus-Lion]

Oh yes! And it took me some serious time until i understood it, relatives that dated call me family just to get advantage into their favor. Pathetic people that i barley talk to now.

[Paris13]

Those are The Pitttts. xx

[menina]

Yes, I've met some people like that. The problem is that I was so desperate for their "friendship" and attention that I didn't realize what they were doing.

[Paris13]

Sad, Isn't It? xx

[menina]

Yes, it is. But now I know better Paris.

[ConfusedGirlie1234]

Yes, at school. Smtng like; "OMG! Your hair looks sooooooo good. Can I copy your homework?"
"You're my best friend in the whole world. Can you help me with the test today?"

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag and best of Luck. xx

[Constatine]

I'm one step ahead of them... I don't give them a chance..

[Chevy1_kb]

Same here a can see right through them

[Constatine]

@Chevy1_kb lucky us 😁😀

[Chevy1_kb]

Constatine absolutely where not stupid obv

[Paris13]

Good One!!! xx

[Sparkie460]

Yes. There have always been ass kissers. Everyone wants something. When they don't need anything you don't hear from them

[Paris13]

RIGHT ON!!! xx

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah probably. Never really thought about it that deeply.

[Paris13]

Another Millionth Question Here, dear. lolxx

[AviatorTom]

There have always been, and still are, people who try to get something for nothing.

[Paris13]

Agree. xx

[Anonymous]

Yes. But fortunately I've become pretty adept at sniffing out thier bulls***. The great thing about people like that is that is not natural to thier personality. So no matter how hard the try to wear it it fits like a cheap suit.

[Paris13]

Suites me Fine. xx

[Opinion Owner]

Rimshot! 😆

[Massageman]

Heck, even the food stores call me one of their favorite customers - - - as it they cared - - - -

[Massageman]

* oops- as IF they cared

[Paris13]

lol!!! The Money, honey. xx

[Numpty501st]

Bosses mostly, some women co-worker's like to flirt to get what they want out of you or just to practice I guess. Although it is really weird when they have a partner.

[Paris13]

I see. Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. xx

[Jersey2]

Actually, not as many as I might have thought.

[Paris13]

Okay Then. xx

[Mansearching]

Every time my girlfriend or mother wants something. Well mom uses guilt... lol

[Paris13]

lol Dump Them. xx

[Mansearching]

How can I dump my mother? I'm a caregiver for her. If I'm not she'll go into a home or homeless. No one else would take care of her.

girlfriend on other hand, she does it teasingly.

[collie22]

Rarely that happens , I know better though when somebody's doing that it's not good.

[Paris13]

Shiny Butter Knife... lolxx

[collie22]

Your a good friend😊

[Chewy______]

Yeah I run a crew of them at work. All the time. Outside of work, not really.

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. xx

[Chewy______]

Thanks

[Likes2drive]

Probably my ex wife when she wanted something

[Paris13]

lol The EX!!! xx

[Jerre]

Yes, several girls were buttering me up, they wanted sex and they got it.

[Paris13]

lol!!! Well, U are From Ugly, Jere. xx

[elizamichale1]

Oh yes so many times

[Nik1hil]

I wouldn't blame them,

You are a very desirable women.
You are in a profession where men would enjoy buttering you up.
Both Metaphorically and Literally!..

I wish you a long and healthy life, lot of broken men, and you are an angel with power to heal them.

[elizamichale1]

@Nik1hil awww thanks honey u r sooooo nice

[Paris13]

Near Master. xx

[Nik1hil]

Miss. Paris are you mocking my Impeccable efforts.
Since, I buttered her up, Metaphorically. It is ironic considering your question.
But i can promise you, no string's attached. Again Metaphorically, not theatrically!..

[elizamichale1]

@Nik1hil @Paris13 lol... 😃😃😃😘😘😘

[HelpfulWoman]

my mother frequently.

[Paris13]

I Miss Mine... xx

[thegreenyogi]

I had them in the past.

[Paris13]

Sadly, Still Out There... xx

[thegreenyogi]

I'm sorry for you. Xx it's not fun having those kind of people around you.

[Bloopbloopbloop]

Many. And I see right through them.

[Paris13]

Me Two!!! xx

[exitseven]

My kids used to do this all the time.

[Paris13]

I Get That. xx

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes, of course.

[Paris13]

No Doubt. xx

[FunkyMonkee]

My first girlfriend buttered me up with sex and later, told me she was just using me to make her hubby jealous.

[Anpu23]

Yes, of course.

[Paris13]

Like in Horse? lolxx

[DJB72]

Always. As you get older you can recognise it more easily though.

[DarkLegacy]

Yes all the time, i see it coming

[Paris13]

U&s Writers are Wise. xx

[Iron_Man]

Maybe they want my house

[Paris13]

Yikes, Tiger. Everything Must be Okay Now with That... xx

[Iron_Man]

No nothings OK they might be golddiggers my friends

[Iron_Man]

The guys trying to offer to split my property taxes to be on the deed and own half of my house and not put anything into it. And I’m still responsible for upkeep any maybe future hurricane damage or anything else house repairs anything that comes along by myself That’s crazy. Plus if something ever happens, he could order me to sell the house and what if he doesn’t even split half the property taxes that’s like winning the lottery For him and everybody has to pay property taxes. If you live in a house.

[Paris13]

Miss your Face, lolxx

[Iron_Man]

Soon

[jamesgoldman]

Yeah, comes with the nature of this business

[Paris13]

lol How Come Make it My Business? xx

[jamesgoldman]

You're offering people money, they think their emotions or yours can be turned into extra money

[Christoff92]

Every person now and these days

[Paris13]

Moreeee Sow. lolxx

[Nigjt]

Yes all the time.
God Bless

[Paris13]

***Israel.:((xx

[Nigjt]

What u mean? Huh

[Pterodon]

Oh yeah but I can usually read through them

[Paris13]

Indeed. xx

[Anonymous]

YES they are everywhere

[Paris13]

So True and Moreeeeee Nowadays. xx

[Billlewis]

Can you blame them for wanting to butter you up? I'd certainly try, if I were there;)

[nawtee_me]

Okay, I admit it. You are worthbbuttering up to….. ;)

[CubaPirate]

The world is full of people like that

[Paris13]

Do You Find Them on Those Cruises? lol!!! xx

[CubaPirate]

I'll tell you next week lol. I'm certain that the staff will be working hard for their tips

[Paris13]

lol Love Boat no Mope. xx

[DreamLife7]

🤣🤣 that picture

[Paris13]

lol Okay. xx

[TrueConfection]

My kids do it on a daily basis.

[shortster]

Definitely

[Paris13]

No Doubt. xx

[Mark987]

100%. I think has endured that.

[Paris13]

Who Hasn't? lolxx

[loveslongnails]

Always have, always will be.