Do you associate with mainstream or popular friends?

[jennifer_bloom]

I want nothing to do with the mainline crowd cause they judge you based on your clothes and posture and hair and money and education and social power.

All of that is a part of the physical existence we live in, but I expect my friends to base our relationship on my morals and personality, not how beautiful I look in heels, or how much weight I can lift in a gym.

I want nothing to do with friends who rate you by primitive animal principles like biology or resources or hair colour.

[Anonymous]

I have only a couple of close friends, I don't like the popular kids in school they can be mean. My younger sister wanted to be popular she hung out with these 4 girls, they convinced my sister to wear a belly shirt to the mall. My sister is 13 and she isn't allowed to wear belly shirts outside the house. Anyway she wore one to the mall last spring and got caught and was grounded. These girls one was having a birthday party and invited my sister she was so excited 😊 Then they called her the day of the party and told her she had to wear a belly shirt. She said she couldn't and they told her "I guess little baby can't come then " She was devastated she had her outfit picked out for that night. Popular girls can just be so mean in my experience.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO!!

[Holsen]

Personally I like to have my little bubble and be detached from the rest while with a person, lets you truly know one !

[Constatine]

I am who i am and who i want to be. Back in the days i was the most popular Got all the girls. but they where not my type. ( i did not ask to be popular.. it just happend to be and i did not like it )

I found being popular attracts the wring people for the wrong reasons.

When i got older my appearance became a bit harder. Like i wrote often here.. i look like a ganster.

I thought it was an intresting look. They did not. . I " lost " most of my " girls and friends " . I quoute that because we all know they where not. They wanted to be seen and thus hangout with the most popular guy.

Since that happend. I'm much much happier in life. I did the things i could not do..

I'm one with nature. Love trees, sky and stars. Love the smell of the rain and wet earth. Love snow and all the elements. ( they thought that was freaky or nerdy - or bow to call that )

I met some of them at a reunion. They laugh and still act popular. Ome looked at me i was the feeak once again but i could see they where not happy at all. All work all being popular , being high profile but not love and no respect they would have gotten if they just act " normal "

My lady has the sane mind set. Just accept who you are be the most beautiful person in the world.

My lady is 100 percent nerd best of her school and always a target. But she pushed that aside. She has a more than good job with matching income. She found someone who accepted her for who he is.

And i love her more than everything i can loose friends, job , money and i don't care. I loose her. I will die for real. Because we have a cosmic connection.

So the point of this long long piece of text.

Just be yourself, love yourself for it and don't try to be something your not. Because being popular with all it's fake friends , love and life is not all that wonderfull.

[RealMarek]

These questions have not been relevant to me since junior high. Interesting social circles in your area…