Summer social gathering-what to wear?

[HappyWoman34]

It’ll be early summer in the evening. I’m attending an Asperger’s social event with my bestie, in an attempt to make new friends with other people with Asperger’s. It’s an end of year dinner party. What should I wear? My cleavage showing black tulle dress, cleavage showing blue tulle dress, or more conservative, but still very nice, blue short sleeved tiered dress?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, those dresses with cleavage showing sound pretty risky for meeting new people at a social event. Even if it's the summer, you wanna make a good first impression and make folks comfortable, not feel like they're checking you out the whole time, ya know?

I'd go with that nice conservative tiered dress. Classy and cool without being too revealing. Don't wanna give the wrong vibes or anything, especially if some guys there might not be great at reading social cues.

Plus you wanna focus on meeting folks and getting to know them, not worrying if your dress is distracting. Make 'em like you for who you are inside! The tiered dress sounds like it shows you respect people without hiding your style. Bet you'll have a great time and maybe even meet some new friends that way.

[Amiapowerlessman]

A t shirt and some comfy shorts if it’s hot and if it’s an outside setting… ya know something casual

[HappyWoman34]

It’ll be indoors, I think, but a bowling club

[Amiapowerlessman]

T shirt and some jeans, simplicity is key

[HappyWoman34]

Is it unwise to wear cleavage showing dresses?

[HappyWoman34]

Does it attract the wrong sort of attention?

[Amiapowerlessman]

No you can wear that, if you like the way it looks then wear it, if the man is mature enough he’ll respect you and not have any sort of weed action when he notices

[Amiapowerlessman]

*weird actions

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Blue is my favorite color, I'd go with the tiered dress. Cleavage doesn't need to be shown off to be appreciated. :-)

[Daffotul]

it's fall not summer

[HouseMoat]

Wait, summer. You're in the u. s?

[Wise4myage]

Sundress.