I feel I have to achieve academic and economic success to get loved by my family?

[Anonymous]

Right now I am jobless situation, I am trying my best to get a job. I achieved an expensive degree with the cost of my mental health. But what I am so far in my job sector that I am not able to meet my own needs for lack of money. My family in this situation is not giving any mental pr emotional support but they are only attacking my personality and handling of situation. I feel like going back to depression because of lack of emotional support from my family. All of the members are detached and only nice to me when I give them achievement.

[boggboss]

So what are u asking if u know your family is like this why do u keepnexpecting emotional support from them

[Asker]

What do you think I should ask emotional support from. A human needs emotional support. It is not like I will be forever in this hard time, it will pass but hard time will come again later in time. If this is how it is that my family will only support me in my good time then what is the point of the family if they behave like outside world

[boggboss]

But thats the thing if u know that won't why do u expect them too not everyone will have family that are supportive

[buff006]

Find someone who likes you for who you are?

[Asker]

I have realised most of my friends do not genuinely care about me