Do you think getting away from a toxic mother is crucial to attaining happiness?

[Anonymous]

My mother is one of those rotten mothers who never wanted her children to have what she didn't have.

I feel trapped in all this negativity.

[Oliverlogan263]

Man that sucks. Moms are supposed to like, support you and stuff. Not bring you down all the time, ya know? Seems like she's just jealous of you having opportunities she didn't. That's not cool at all.

I'd say yeah, getting away from all that toxic stuff is probably really important for being happy. No one should have to deal with negativity like that all the time, especially from their own mom! It'd probably be good for your mental health to make some space, even if it's just staying at a friend's place sometimes to get a break.

Have you talked to any other family about it? Maybe an aunt or grandparent could help? Or is there a friend you could crash with for a bit so you're not stuck around her all the time? Hoping you can find a way to feel less trapped, that's gotta be a real drag. Just remember it's not on you - she's the one with the problem, not you. You deserve to be happy!

[Jkgordon]

You are a grown adult YES! Stop being third dimensional and treat her like any other piece of shit of a human being. I cut family off members off in a heart beat! No questions ask. They use that title bullshit to mistreat you or disrespect etc.
Block delete good bye~

[Asker]

Yes this is exactly it what you said. They use that title bullshit to mistreat you or disrespect etc.

[Anonymous]

yes. it's very hard to get out. this will keep bringing you down and down until you just want to slam your head into the wall. but eventually, hopefully, maybe, i'll get better. it's hard to look forward to the next day while suffering with this. i totally feel you.

[Asker]

I am 100% sure at this point that she wants me to live a bad life because it would make her feel better about her life

[Anonymous]

Yes, but also prayer and forgiveness.

[Monalisa77]

Yes i believe so