Who on here no longer has a relationship and cut off their toxic mother?

[Alwayreckles93]

My first years of life my grandparents and aunt had raised me and changed my diapers. The first years my mom didn't want nothing to do with me until I was 8 years old my mom move my outside eof state relocated and made sure I didn't had access to my family members from my dad's side of the family. My relationship with my mom never ever been good to me like at all. It's like she hates to see me happy and she will always talk s*** behind my back to other people. My mom was violent no not normal spanking she would go to extreme one time. Some how I dig into my dad's old agenda he had left behind and called my aunt's house and I told her all about it. My mom found out got extremely angry at me she just called my aunt back told her I was just being a spoiled brat. Now as an adult I realized no matter how hard I tried my mom is never going to changed. Yeah people always say oh you need to respect your mom. But for my well mental health I cut her off completely. Until last night my half sister called me and told me my mom may not last long from the back ground I could hear my mom telling my sister I don't want to see ******** ever f**** ever in this life. I have learn it is what it is not even therapy will ever changed my mom. I always wonder are other people here that had cut of their mom?

[Sandeeppingping]

No, I have with my sister though, my mom's the best woman I have ever known

[RealMarek]

That is very rough. Sometimes the only healthy and safe way forward involves going no-contact.

[Nikki1989]

I haven't spoken a word to my mother since 2007 and plan on keeping it that way.

[Alwayreckles93]

It's a huge difference , People think that family always will have each other's back but honestly that isn't the case.

[OlderAndWiser]

No, I have a decent relationship with my mom (who is now 91 years old.)

[Mynameisbobby]

I cut off my mother and sister