Have you ever Thought Your Sibling or Just Anyone was Competing Against you?

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***More Lately with My Middle Sister and I Feel Her Narcissism and Jealousy and Cold Attitude. xxoo

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don’t have sisters, i only have brothers. I can say my relationship isn’t the best with one of my brothers, but its a long story and its personal. I ask myself where we did go wrong, we used to be the most close growing up, until social services split us up. When They were put in fosterhome i requested to the social services to put me at same home as Them so i could Watch over them, but social services rejected my request and told me that they had found another home for me, in the end i never ended up in fosterhome because my father bringed me home in last minute.
I will always love all of my brothers and im not envious of my brothers, they deserve all good they achieved but I can be envious sometimes about the fosterhome they grew up in and i think it stems in the fact that they were raised in at least a secure environment with people i consider stable in the end, also i envied that another family got to take care of my brothers. my life wasn’t secure for me at my mother or fathers home and i had to withstand a lot of mental abuse from my fathers wife and sexual and physical harassment from my mothers ex boyfriends, one of her exes stuck his hand inside my pants and tried to finger my hole, he managed to stick one finger in my hole halfway. also my mother gave me away to a paedophile when i was 10 but it was interrupted halfway through the paedophile’s actions because my uncle called and asked where my mother went with me and asked us to come back to his appartment ( he lived neighbour with my paedophile, and he had no Idea about what my mother was up to)
I Will never hate on any of my brothers, not even on the one i always end up disagreeing with, because he has no Idea what i did and had to do to protect them from the dysfunctional wounded mother we grew up with.

rosemilk · Accepted Answer

friend, yes. constantly. i don't get her problem

Smartman5 · Answer

I think my sister is jealous of my success. She achieved things by working hard. I achieved something by working little. Now my goal is to reach higher levels in education. But she doesn't want me to attempt it. "I tried it and it didn't work, so don't do you either," she says. But I will try.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

There is a significant age difference between me and my siblings, so there was no competition between us as kids. Now, my sister and me are enjoying our time together. And she also loves words...

nonyabeez-wax · Answer

Yes.

Crazy sister. Doesn't listen to anything I ever say. She thinks I'm dumb, but I program computers and have been told by several people that I should go to law school. So, I'm not sure she's right about anything.

Drew-1990 · Answer

No I don't besides friendly competition. Me and my one sister did not get alone growing up but not hate we more argued. I annoyed her and she would make me pay, back then she was bigger and stronger being four years older. We get along now

Cody2004 · Answer

I have a twin sister some people say we're like old married couple is an extremely weird analogy to give to siblings makes me question who they're married to lol

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Yes, my sister is desperate to have our other think of her as the most devoted of her children and she will stab in the back anyone who tries to interfere with her aspiration.

LostandFound__x · Answer

Not my sibling, but a few (ex) friends, yes.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Are you an older sister? Lead with an example…  Cultivate the way they want to treat you by the way you treat them…

beebella · Answer

My mom, and if she's not doing something to pit herself against me, she's doing something to indirectly pit one of my siblings against me.

handsomelad70 · Answer

When I was in high school, I wouldn't say were were competing, but another boy and I were basically one-two or two-one for handsomest lad in our class.

Carly2005 · Answer

I did especially once’s started to grow in places. With my sister Cause definitely did grow up lol only 5ft. Til i came out. Not competing for same resources.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

Well me and my little brother argue all the time so yeah he probably is jealous of me

exitseven · Answer

I have a twin brother and he always tried to compete with me.

undertaker007 · Answer

I think that’s normal for siblings even if they don’t say it especially when it comes parents attention.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Constantly, but not friends and I have no family. Just random guys.

Wiredone · Answer

No. Nobody tries to compete with me. They don't have the ambition or drive to keep up

OddBeMe · Answer

I thought this question was going somewhere else. Sorry. *zips up* I’ll leave.

Tanya456 · Answer

What's her Covid attitude?

lightbulb27 · Answer

For sure wasn't a thought…

NathanDavis · Answer

in sports... yes, lol

Demonatrix · Answer

Yes but I realised I didn't need to compete I just needed to be me

Yannae · Answer

Only when we actually were.

DagonbroughtMehere · Answer

It is in Your nature to compete.

Kelly6 · Answer

yes my sister is very jealous and use to compete a lot

shortster · Answer

Outside of games, nope.

Nice222 · Answer

No I’m too weird to compete against. lol.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Yeah

OtterMan68 · Answer

nope, not I

DarkLegacy · Answer

Yes they do it all the time

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