Would you prefer your firstborn child to be male or female? Why?

[Oliverlogan263]

Obviously, there are benefits either way and it's not like you can pick (just influence).

A boy

A girl

[aceleon]

boy.

not that i want a girl though (don't take me wrong i would love having girls but only if they were never gonna enter puberty, sorry to offend anyone but i don't wanna be a teenage girl father or risk my girls turning into things i loath)

but even if i did want girls or my situations were to my liking i still want my first kid to be a boy, an older sister is pretty much useless in life especially if you have a functioning mother but an older brother is pretty much starting 1-0 to life yes he might bully you while you are growing up but he will be your father in the outside world protect you from pretty much anything if he is not a loser or a rotten clusterfuck

my prefered scenarios:

İF THE GİRLS WİLL NOT ENTER PUBERTY OR AT LEAST HAVE GUARANTEE THAT THEY WİLL NEVER BECOME WHORES

if i only have a woman and enough money to live:

3 boys 2 girls

if i don't have enough money:

2 boy 1 girl (pretty much a tradition in both of my parents sides)

if i have let's say 4 woman: 2 boy 1 girl from every woman or 2 boys if i don't have any guarantee of what will become my girls.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Either or, really. If there was some magical technology that could let me decide, I'd genuinely prefer to flip a coin.

The boy appeals to me since I have more confident ideas of how to raise a boy into a successful man. I'd be a bit lost and confused towards a girl, but my wife would certainly know how to raise a daughter into a very successful woman. In fact, I can think of no better mother to teach a daughter that.

The boy would let me see the world more through a familiar set of eyes, and that has an appeal like reliving my own childhood. The girl would let me see the world through more unfamiliar eyes, and that holds equal appeal.

So I genuinely can't decide and I don't like the idea of being able to decide.

[StarWarGirl]

I want my first born as a male child but my boyfriend wants first born as a girl child. He loves the feeling of having daughters but for son he feels like he should be disciplined kind.

But my reason is that I was first born. And I always wished if I had some brother it could have great help for me as boys are good at socializing they have lots of friends they are good at digging information, making ways arranging things to get done etc especially regarding making career, future, jobs etc. If you tell them this you want to do this you want to get boys are very good at making a way to get that to make that possible. Boys' male friends also do help them in that but female's friend they are always intangeld with feelings of jealousy and so they don't really help each other and this I have really struggled a lot. So I personally want my first born as male for my second born help. And I know being male he will find his own way himself also we will be there for him always so even he won't be left alone.

[handsomelad70]

Wouldn't care about the child's sex.

[DizzyDesii]

I was always saying a girl first but now I’d be fine with either or. My babies gone be dressed fresh af lol

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl mine too. Ima be having my kids lookin fly and fresh with some cute fits on. I’ll teach my boys and girls early on confidence to carry with them through in life to always have and never feel doubt themselves but in case they do, I’ll be there to remind them always and be there for them. Knowing me, my boys gon have the girls after them and the boys gon want to have it with my girls but they’ll need to show and prove if they are respectable and decent mature pure young person to have a chance with my daughter.

[Simslover92]

I want a girl first. I've had dreams of her. I have a name picked out and everything. I really feel I will have a girl first but my boyfriend says it will probably be a boy because he has nothing but boys in his family and men usually determine the sex of the baby but I still have hope it will be a girl because we have nothing but girls in my family.

[Oliverlogan263]

It could be a toss up you never know

[Simslover92]

Yep that's true. It could be.

[wolfcat87]

I wanted a boy first and a girl second so the girl could be protected by the boy and wear his hand me downs. Instead, I got a girl first who is a giant, gorgeous, tough tomboy and really the best of both worlds. She's scrappy and needs no one to defend her as a champion fighter who's 5'10". I got my son second, and he didn't mind the hand me downs. It all worked out.

[JoePro_]

It really wouldn't bother me either way. Boys you can be rougher with, but from what I know from knowing a lot of parents, girls are (on average) easier to handle. Sure, you'll have the hyperactive few out there, but I've seen that most girls are pretty tame. But both are great, and children in general are little miracles.

[Joshydavid25]

That girl in the second pic is too damn adorable.. So cute.. But really I don't have a preference.. As long as I have a healthy beautiful child..

[Oliverlogan263]

I agree with that and that little baby girl is so precious and cute 🥰🥰🥰

[Joshydavid25]

Yes sir.. Man, I hope my daughter is a cutie like her.. Haha..

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh she will man, I hope mines does too lol

[Siri137]

Male or female? What about the other 1,418 genders? I'm triggered! Call an ambulance, quick! Get me to my safe-space!

Seriously though, it's good to see people resisting, and often just simply ignoring, the insane and petulant demands of the more unhinged lunatics amongst us. I have no preference, it wouldn't matter to me, because we need both genders in order to continue as a species.

[EmmaMary]

We never cared whether we had a boy or a girl, just so long as they were born healthy.

As it happens we are just so lucky and blessed in having one of each.

[A_Bell]

Only because my first born is a girl. I think if you asked me before, I'd say boy since I come from a family of 6 girls and they get on my nerves. 😆

[sheikalana]

I really have the feeling my first born is going to be a girl. In the past I wanted to have a boy really badly. I'm sure I'm going to have a boy and a girl but I have this strong feeling that my first born is going to be a girl.

[alice55]

I would say girl like this she wouldn't have to worry about the whole assholes older brother the kick their younger sibling.

[Miah04]

Tbh, idc. As long as they are healthy. It would be a blessing either way

[Oliverlogan263]

I agree too

[IceCreamSandwich]

I guess a boy so that I could just dress him in boy clothes and nobody would ask weird questions about him.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It makes no difference as long as if the baby is healthy is all matters to me.

[Lyndsielee666]

I have two girls. Couldn’t imagine having a boy tbh

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin “Couldn’t imagine having a boy tbh”

Oh the horror! Men are awful!

[KrakenAttackin]

@WhiteBoyChill I remember when I was very young , I overheard two mothers talking, one had two boys and the other only had daughters. The one with daughters said to the other mom, "I feel bad for you, you have to raise the enemy".

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin That almost sounds fake its so unreal

[strateguy632]

boy so i can show i protect his future options not circumcision.

[midnightmoon05]

My first born is a girl and my second is a son. Mission completed.

[Apple1996]

I only have sons but orginally I did want a girl as my first

[WhitneySnow]

Female cause I understand girls better. But I’d be happy with a boy too.

[Anonymous]

A girl because I'd love to watch her grow up and, there's even a vague chance I might never have another kid. I want a couple boys, too but, I'd want my first to be a girl.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Wouldn’t it be cute if the girl were exactly like your wife in some ways?

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill I would think so. I remember telling my ex-fiance when she was pregnant that I was hoping it'd be a girl because it'd be like watching HER grow up and that I'll bet she'd be just as cute growing up as the stories she told me about when she was little in India; getting so excited about seeing a puppy that, when telling her mother about it, she kept stuttering the Hindi word for puppy. Her first day at school, her teacher told her that the desk she was sitting at was HER desk so, at the end of the school day, she dragged her desk all the way home with her.
I imagined what it'd be like to see my daughter, abut 4 or 5 years old, with her long black hair, happily dancing around and swinging her hair behind her.

[Sameone]

I want a girl. And i don't know why it's just feelings

[Berweic]

If I had a daughter, just like me, the world would be mine. God...