HONESTLY, do you PREFER to have a GIRL OR BOY as your FIRST CHILD? And why?

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Lol i used to say (back when i actually wanted 12 kids ALL BEFORE THE AGE OF 30), that if i kept having one sex, i’d keep going til i got one of both. But now im like weeeeell, i just want 2-3 kids. If i have a girl and boy then i’ll stop. If i have a boy first then i’ll try again and hopefully get a girl. I’d really prefer my little mini me first. I’d like to have a son as well but im really rooting for a girl first. Whatever I dont have by time i hit 30, i’ll likely adopt that opposite sex. by the way the memes are just random as usual #FeelFreeToList #BabyFever #GirlsVsBoys

Robertcw · Accepted Answer

Girl 😍. I've always wanted a daughter to protect. It's like the ultimate gift of life for a man. A pure daughter, untouched. Innocent and loving.

I would kick her boyfriend's asses and enjoy the first 10 years of life. Would enjoy raising a child no doubt about it.

I think young men benefit from having older sisters to look out for them, especially when it comes to social development, attracting women and self-grooming and hygiene practices.

I think having younger sisters becomes problematic though. Feelings of jealousy could arise if the daughter loses her virginity sooner than the son (which is very likely imo). This could cause a whole host of problems in the teenage years.

Laozi · Accepted Answer

They're cute, caring, patient, clever etc. And in my country, guys get all the credit and privileges. So, having a girl child, I would like to give her everything that my society denying them. Make her strong and independent. And make an example of how a girl should be raised.

Apple1996 · Answer

I wanted a boy first and that's what I got💙💙💙

Sarahr123 · Answer

I don’t really mind but if I had to choose I would prefer a girl first. I would make her a little warrior, clever and all rounded. I would want her to have everything I never had and do everything I never did. I want her to be better than me in every way. If I have twins then it’ll be great I’ll get everything over with in one pregnancy and hopefully it’ll be a girl and a boy.

DianaWest · Answer

honestly, it's so tough to choose. ideally, i'd love to have 3 babies, but at LEAST 2. As long as they're healthy, their sex does not matter. but I would prefer to have 1 of each. i'd like a mini me baby girl so she can be my little doll princess. i'd dress my boy and girl in designer clothes, i'd give my girl gold earrings, etc. yeah, i'd spoil my children to death (for the first 3 or 4 years), but i'd also teach them to be good human beings and not assholes. the older they get, the less i'd spoil them cause they got to learn their lesson. they can't be mean little assholes and expect mommy to give them cookies. nah nah.

Screenwriter · Answer

I just wanted the fingers to match the toes and all the parts to be working sufficiently well. I got that. We never found out the sex beforehand either. Men determine the sex of the baby. If a man WANTS a girl, he'll get one. Same the other way around. Ever see those families where there are 10 girls and 5 boys. That man wanted girls more. Then there are the even stephens. Girl first boy second and vice versa. Egalitarian dad. Then you see families where there's five boys, or five girls. Those guys were on a mission. It's daddy's agenda. Well balanced people usually like a well balance family.

Jonny_ · Answer

One of each if I was choosing but if it's one or the other i'd want a daughter without a doubt. They just seem nicer, little boys seem like a pain in the arse and i'm not that fussed about having someone to teach sport to or "guy stuff" just never interested me.

cheapshotbob · Answer

just for laughs im gonna say a girl seeing how you can't hurt them by kicking them between the legs which will be helpful when i teach h her to beat guys up. she will
be respected! when she meets a guy.

HONESTLY, do you PREFER to have a GIRL OR BOY as your FIRST CHILD? And why?

jgokgotit · Answer

I would prefer a boy first. The only things I'd have to worry about with a boy are them hurting themselves and fighting. Girls are sneakier, smarter and way more manipulative. Also, the attitude from a daughter as my first child might get her a one way trip back to God. I need a boy first so I can have a little practice parenting and learning patience before dealing with a girl, especially as teenagers.

lookin64 · Answer

Either or was fine by me although we did have a boy first. The first thought that i had when we found out was that everything that was in me and in her was wrapped up in that little one and would need all the help they could get to find their way in this world.

Anonymous · Answer

Boy, because he'll be more like Justin and will take after Justin more. I can watch them have father-son time or just enjoy the thought of them doing things together. Justin knows how to do a lot of fun guy things, so a son will be great for him to teach. He'll pass down Justin's name and family values.

But I do want a girl too, eventually <3 :)

Ianto · Answer

There are reasons to have a boy first:
1. Even nowadays, there is some social pressure to have a son "to carry on the name". I never felt that, but my ex certainly felt relief over it.
2. A boy growing up with a kid sister gets a lot of self confidence. All her friends become besotted, etc.
Oh, I have a son and a daughter, in that order, so my comment is backed by personal experience. I myself had an older sister, which is why I'm so shy and retiring!

laurieluvsit · Answer

Those memes are too funny! ... lol I think a girl would be nice but either would be OK.

nawtee_me · Answer

I think a mini you first would be nice so she could set her little brother up with her friends in stead of the other way around. lol Or maybe he should be first so he would be the protective older brother that runs off all of her boyfriends because they are not good enough for her. hmmmmm

BoxySama · Answer

#GodHax
Having female orgasm during a tinder conversation where insemination occurs will result in a male child Casey's, opposite for female
has to do with the level of dopamine in your brain and how it affect the sperm as they travel through your ovaries.

Finchie40 · Answer

Honestly it doesn’t matter , what matters is having your baby come into this world safe and healthy , but I remember before I had kids I always said I wanted a boy But my first was a girl and I was still excited and happy

Apope16 · Answer

I want a baby girl. Im dating a girl who has a girl. So in that cases i want a boy to balance things. But a baby girl would be a soft spot too. I do want my manly name passed down the line.

wekikz1990 · Answer

i feel like a boy would be a lot calmer and it would produce less sound... i want to teach him the good reason to have mother advices in his life rather than his father.. (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃

Slim57 · Answer

A boy because I don't want a daughter who would get caught up in this world and start doing porn or being a slut or becoming pregnant and left despite me trying my best to raise her to the best of my ability, I wouldn't want my son to either, but let's be real, it's way more less likely to happen to a male

Phoenix98 · Answer

I don't care which I have first I'd like to have both a son and a daughter though, I don't mind which one comes first though. I'll be blessed either way.

Pink2000 · Answer

That’s a hard one. If I was to have children which I agreed to have a child for my friend and use a Korean sperm donor (I want a girl) so a girl. But if I was to have children with my boyfriend I think I would want our first child to be a boy

Riddler1412 · Answer

I'd like a boy first, then it doesn't matter ( as long as they're healthy ). Why a boy first? Because he can watch out for his younger sister/brother.
I would like to have both a girl and a boy. But how many kids? That depends on the wife.

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