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HONESTLY, do you PREFER to have a GIRL OR BOY as your FIRST CHILD? And why? (Page 2)
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A boy. I would like one of each but believe an older brother would naturally protect his younger sister and help keep her safe when the need arose.
Thats sweet
Sex and dogs. Sex dogs. Ain't matter what comes out. A boy or a girl. An egg or a chicken. It's all the same.
Weird...
out of my control to be honest. I feel like My girlfriends family will predict what sex it is.
as long as its health and happy then I dont mind
Are they fortune tellers
what I mean is like a pattren in which sex the baby is
Boy first. If it were up to me, I'd have all boys. I can't see myself being a good mom to a girl, tbh.
Awww ok
Why not?
Ideally I prefer a daughter first followed by just sons. If my gal has her way, we will have nothing but sons. At least we’ll have little lackeys for chorin’. More hands equal less work.
Um no lmao. Why doesn't she want a girl
Because she is a woman and vividly recalls how she behaved as a child. She doesn’t want to deal with a daughter like her. Frankly she is completely open to having a daughter together, she just rather not have one. We even already picked out her name and most of the boys’ names... as wild as that is. Funny, I remind her, our children will be half me too... Probably why she is open to the idea. ;)
Thats her chance to
Raise her daughter better than how she turned out 🤷♀️
She turned out fantastic. She is more concerned about the in between. I am not worried and frankly, I don’t really feel that she is either.
I'd like to have a boy as my firstborn. I somehow like the idea of my son being the big brother to his sister (if I have girls... or any child). But I'd love them regardless.
I definitely understand
If I were to have a kid, I'd really want a girl, but I suspect that that's just because I've never had a lot of girls or women in my life, making me yearn for something like that.
Hmm didn't expect that
What, really? ^^ We've talked about it before, haven't we?
I dont think we did about the kids gender
Lul. You had to make this about yourself eeh? You got this one chance to wash off your sins by little but you had to fuck it up and make this about yourself 😂😂.
Just kidding mate. Great explanation eeh.
@Mahir_G... What?
i just want one.
and perfer a boy. I would adopt the other one though
Yea i’d adopt whichever i dont have by 30
I want 1 boy and one girl at least..
I am willing to go till 5 kids.. And I would prefer them as 2 Boys and 3 Girls..
Awww similar to what i used to want
Desi us would be perfect...
If I weren't such an Atheist and a bit gentleman and living next to you... And a less asshole in nature
Hahaha true
I voted girl, but a boy would be fine as well... to play football with :D
Baseball for me haha
Yeah, that's cultural. You guys call soccer what we call football :D
But I know baseball is the nr 1 sports in the USA. Here in Belgium it means nothing...
We're into soccer, cycling, basketball, tennis.
Football is No.1 sport in US. Then basketball, then baseball. A lot of young kids play soccer, but I don't get the feeling they follow the world teams. Tennis and cycling have good followings too. Everyone likes the Olympics.
I don't want to have a daughter lol. I'm trying to stay out of jail. (Because I know I would beat some little punk's ass, minor or not!)
Lmao
lol, so cute how dad's are so protective of their daughters, but you guys forget that you were literally the same like 5 years ago. but cute nonetheless.
Lol. That's a valid argument in general, @DianaWest. Except it doesn't apply to me because I'm not one of those people. ☺️
I'm not picky but I'd like twins so I get to be pregnant only once and get two kids, otherwise id have to get pregnant again as I want two kids.
Lmao i said the same 😂 but sometimes one twin is sick when newborn so that scared me
Boy. Cause I was born first so I've got 2 younger brothers, and I have always wanted an older brother
I used to want an older bro too but im proud of how i turned out as the oldest
Same here. But still lol
i'm just fine with either first... life is like that... my grandpa had nothing but girls... my mom had nothing but boys... but i understand the idea of wanting to have a little you... that's cool
Yea i really do want a mini me. My mom had 2 girls. My grandparents only had my mom. My dad had me and 3 boys
Q _ Q looks like a full house
No my mom and dad aren't together. All 4 of my dads kids are by different women. He married the 4th
how strange... i guess some guys just can't keep they thang... in they pants... sorry to hear that
He wasn't a hoe like i thought. He did at least have us all 2-3 years apart sohe didn't cheat haha
well... i guess that's okish... he still did mismanage his donk... but we're glad you're here... donk mismanagement or not... HA... my moms going on her 4th marriage
Dang well hopefully 4th times the charm
i guess that's just the way life rolls people... that reminds me... why does the pevious and earlier generations idolize the people... they went to highschool with? like that's the only people they want to get with...
Lol im the same way 🙈 im not over this guy from 2002. I never sat down with him to talk it over. I need him to either say its mutual or give me closure lol
2002 was a lonnnnnnng time ago... that was in gradeschool... i was a total weirdo, so i had nothing going on then
Im sure you were rockin that mullet, killin the scene lol
nope.. sadly, that was before i knew what a mullet was... before i had any sense of being, really... i've not always been the sexy beast machine i am today
😂😂😂😂
now now... don't cry, everything will be alright... go find that guy... and if he don't have mutual feelings for you... just beat him up
😂 im in no rush to find him. He’ll just always be in the back of my mind. He really only pops in my mind when im single
but i guess he could be anywhere by now...
He live around the corner 😂
what tha hell? if he knows where you are... you should beat him up fasho
He doesn't know where i live. I moved. But i still know his house because we always played there as a kid
then go over there and demand love... and if he don't give it, beat him up... then say "you better have it by Monday... i'll be back"... mom says it works every time...
Lmao no aggression never worked on me or for me.
to be clear... that's not an acceptable tactic for mens... only womens
Well my first ex held a gun to my stomachh and told me i wasn't leaving him...
that's psycho... that guy belongs in jail or a hole
I invited u to the link for more of the story
i saw... this guy was not right in the head... he wasn't raised right... i'm kinda horrified that people like that exist
YEA i know :(
Considering that a dead body is still a possibility, I'm thrilled when I have alive and healthy.
Just how important is the baby's ownership or lack of a pee pee?
Yea the risk of having a stillborn is terrifying.
And not at all fun. I honestly didn't care which gender baby turns up assigned as. It just seems even less important and more trivial now.
25? Better get going.
Boy.
He can be a protective big brother
I've been wanting a kid since i was 23. The struggle is real
i will not be having my one and only child till im at least 35
hell at this point who know if a world will be around anyway with the way we going...
I would like a boy first so he can protect his sister💕
Aww thats sweet
i'd hope to have the father figure in the picture... can send the boyfriends home in an amberlamps till she's 25 and beyond
@LEADFOOTboi ambulance lmao
I want boy/girl twins. Always have. But at this point I do not care what I have 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Awww girlie
I dont want kids , but if i have i want to have a son. Dealing with a daughter will be tough for me. I barely understand women
Lol ik
*lol ok
You probably already know my sentiment I chose the one that I'm ok with but the pic on the choice is my preferred
What did you choose?
E. I don't know if there's any scientific data to back this but years back a few people and myself noticed that girls are usually the outcome of a pregnancy out of wedlock.
I wouldn't purposely have kids out of wedlock. I prefer to be married first. If im goin outta wedlock im thinking in vitro
I know. Just saying not recommending or promoting
Whether the girl come first or last though her father will turn her into a bangah like this girl https://youtu.be/mhZ51wYSpxc
Oh lawd
With a daughter like that she wouldn't need brother (s) to be protective of her but they still better step up if she gets into any type of trouble
That child fightin like she need anger management. I mean she could be the next ufc fighter but i just dont find what she's doing adorable. I think its good for someone in their teens whos getting bullied or some adult who was in an abusive relationship but I don't know this kid is doing too much for a youngin
Nah she's just passionate. Not all fighters need anger management, in fact most fighters you'll ever meet are the most chill people. Anger stems from a bad childhood as long as parents do their job right anger will not be an issue then and in her adult life
Im saying fighting like that makes her look violent. I wouldn't wanna be around that
Well not saying she'll be an exact replica - I wouldn't be able to plant enough trees. and I'm sure mother would give her other passions to help balance her out. My main point is shed be able to defend herself.
Yea i just feel like some things theyre too young to do. Like kids here whos dads teach them to fight often end up in juvie and shit
Sounds to me maybe they had parents who didn't know what they were doing, being more of a friend than a parent perhaps.
by the way nothing wrong about being a friend to your child but it's more about what you let them get away with or even joining them in their bad behavior that eventually. Models them badly
Yea its just like the people who train their pitbulls to be fight dogs... so i feel like outside of maybe karate, i just wouldn't want them doing stuff like this until maybe age 13+
That's around the age I started. Not too bad