How come people enjoy bringing you down in life?

[Paradiseequeen]

I worked my ass off to get where I am right now. The higher I got in life, I had people continuously pulling me down off the ladder. I had so many jealous people around me that it scared me. I never told nobody that I was law enforcement but my success kept showing. I got everything I ever wanted in life. I appreciate everything including the struggles. There were people around me expecting me to work while they conjure up debt on me. For example, people getting involved with dirty shit using me without knowing. These people thought I was gonna pay for the shit they conjured up. So basically I’m struggling and working to clean up the shit they used me in‼️‼️Constantly creating and inserting me into their freaking problems! I got tired of people trying to steal, and shortchange me. Family members want you to be in the same shit hole they in.

I just got off the phone with my auntie and she tells me in a controlling tone”make sure you get you a one bedroom apartment”. I was calling telling her that I am thinking about buying a house. Everytime I get something nice, I’m always talked about. people ain’t ever happy for me but they wanna destroy it and take it away

[Yellowstar_wavespell]

People usually are jealous when they want something but believe is impossible for them to get. It's a pity. It has nothing to do with you personally, but it sucks to be around that. Just keep in mind not everybody is like that, but it is usually people that believe that they can get good stuff in life, people who have found some peace in life, with whom they are, and people who have at least some sense of hope in life. Otherwise resentment to other people's happiness is easy to find.

[ShadezMcgee]

Because when people are feeling miserable and when they take it out on you, it's because they want others to feel like they do. Any success in areas where they struggle is seen as salt to the wound for them. In essence it truly isn't even about you as much as it is their personal issues and problems. They are angry with their failures and lack of success.

[Still-alive]

It’s usually to male themselves feel better about their own lives

[Still-alive]

Make*

[strateguy632]

because they are jerks!