Is your life an open or a closed book to people?

Question

Do you open up to people easily? Or do people have to get your trust before you open up?

Hansomedevil69 · Accepted Answer

Come to the conclusion a while ago that the Less people know anout you the better. Give less opportunities for people to judge and manipulate you. Mind you should still be yourself I just recommend you keep your personal information classified

RedInnocent69 · Accepted Answer

Pretty open, in real life anyway.

rosemilk · Answer

straight up closed. unless they are close people to me.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

People can know almost anything about my life as long as I can responsibly explain it.

My life has been a Rollercoaster of growing up early, making my own path, betrayals, comeups, losses, tradgity, love, hate, redemption and so many other things.

Sometimes I think the only reason I've been blessed with a life like mine is to use it to help people who are stuck.

So far as trust goes, I never understood that shit. If I tell someone about the times I was an idiot, am I supposed to feel a loss when they decide I have nothing to offer? Doesn't sound like someone I'd want to spend a lot of time around anyway.

Many parts of my past are super embarrassing, but I'm proud of my past and what I'm doing now. As long as you live with no regrets and you stick to your principles, it's hard to really care what other people think. It doesn't usually effect things they way you'd expect anyway.

tfan1 · Answer

Face to face sometimes it takes a while

Online like this where I doubt I’ll ever meet anyone here in real life, as long as it doesn’t involve direct info about my vital information, (specific address, ss #, bank or credit card info, etc) I’m pretty much an open book. Specifically women - Especially on my sexual information. Want to talk about masturbation? I’m ready to talk. Want to ask me information about my penis? Fire away any and all questions you want. As they say I have no shame in my sexy game 😛👍🙂

AlexEfron · Answer

Not to everyone. But what's interesting is what they (those who know about my life) have to say about it 😂.

"We can make a movie out of your life"

"Best romantic comedy"

"If I could write a book, I'd write one about your shit love life"

"You deserve a stand-up comedy biography"

"Life has a personal grudge against you"

A couple of these statements have been made by the same person 😂

Xoirwinkan · Answer

I am a heavy book with a lock on it. I open up slowly at my own pace, and never reveal my inner dialogues. I'm an introvert, so I usually review future conversations in my head and plan for good things to say, or in the moment I weight my words carefully. I have quite a large side to me I haven't shared with anyone.

wiltingrosepetal · Answer

Very very open. If I can't share something with my family, I'll say it to my friends. If it's not appropriate for them, I go on here. Everything in my life must be described, in detail, to who ever will listen 🕺

IslaTheWitch · Answer

definitely an open book... :D I probably should do something with that...

NathanDavis · Answer

my life is an open book... to make it to the book is the thing, lol..

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

I've learn tge hard way for now on only to people tha I'm really close. Tge mire privet you keep your personal life the less drama more peaceful your life will be.

Drew-1990 · Answer

Both actually, first meeting very closed and shy but once you open that book, which doesn't take as long as you would think, you can't close it anymore

matty1889 · Answer

i’m open to anyone i’ll be as open as can be i often say the most OTT or TMI things lol

JacobJordan · Answer

Depends on what it is. If asked questions I will answer honestly or I will say something like "that is not information to share publicly"

Daviddd5412 · Answer

A closed book I think. I don't really feel comfortable talking to people about myself too much.

Simslover92 · Answer

Because I'm so quiet and shy, I'm definitely a close book but I have a very predictable life for those that know me well.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Yeah, once every two years. This time that person betrayed my trust, but that’s OK by me because I don’t care.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I've always been very open and honest. Sometimes too much lol.

Account · Answer

Closed. I have swallowed the keys.  Sometimes even I can't have access to past events.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Open book. However I for one couldn't gel well with people who were closed books. I'm a very curious person and equally I'm a open person 😜😁

LaurenM1997 · Answer

I have to trust people first I made that mistake of opening up to someone then they went and told people when I told them to keep it private

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is open among friends, but I am closing the door on it for online people.

MsBubba · Answer

Close book. I have to trust people to open up.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Mostly closed I let people see what they want. However, the people that deserve my loyalty and trust get to have the open side

DarkLegacy · Answer

Half open, half shut. Meaning i only let people know certain things i want them to know

Markymark92 · Answer

I don’t open easily, I only have a couple of times and that’s because it just felt right but usually I’m quiet I observe I make my reads.

OtterMan68 · Answer

closed. I'm pretty private and much of a loner

LavLavLuv · Answer

I can be an open book... Only if I actually like them

Tomisworthless · Answer

Closed and people dont care to know me either so its a mutual agreement

nawtee_me · Answer

I am an open book but don’t ask if you don’t really want to know….

Jerre · Answer

My life is an open book. I’ll tell people anything they want to know

Aakash_23 · Answer

its not even a book, just a blank paper! Have some thoughts to write?

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I'm a hidden book, very few will find me

RebelinSteel · Answer

It’s closed with locks and wards on it..

RavVid · Answer

It is closed as I can make it.

thegreenyogi · Answer

It's a tightly closed book for a good while.

Ironic_Method · Answer

I got nothing to hide.

smahala1991 · Answer

Sometimes too open

Lokiion · Answer

Closed always been since I was 8

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I'm a closed book.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Largely closed book.

Kelly6 · Answer

@pinay_ako open book

CocacolaGirl1993 · Answer

If I trust You sure if I don't i’m not.

Fuentes · Answer

Closed to most people lol

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes it is

Romasona · Answer

Closed book

mayurr · Answer

Trust issues.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Closed

eagle1951 · Answer

closed

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