Is it best to keep secrets?

[Anonymous]

Even from close friends, about mutual friends? I’ve kept multiple secrets.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, depends on the secret. Back in college, my best friend and her boyfriend were both my really good friends. He met with me over lunch one day to tell me he wanted to break up with her, but wasn't sure. I was like, why on earth would you tell me of all people?!? But he said he just needed to talk to someone. I told him there was no way I was getting any further involved other than to listen, and when our lunch ended, he asked me not to say anything, and I didn't. I mean, how could I if he was unsure. They eventually broke up, and this turd, told her that he talked to me beforehand, and of course my best friend was livid (don't worry, 100 years later, we're still best friends) but sometimes, you're damned if you do, damned if you don't.

I think you just have to assess the secret, who is it going to hurt if you tell or don't tell and go from there.

[MsProsperity]

If you keep it for their own good, yes it’s best. I mean it depends on the secret

[Anonymous]

I've got secrets hidden. and i have to hold onto them deep inside. And it really isn't good for me. all i want to do is let it out. but nobody cares enough or is interested in what i have to say.

[Asker]

I am interested in what you’ve got to say, if you’d like to add me…

[Asker]

Bubblyanne

[Anonymous]

Yes, if you value friendships.

[sheikalana]

I feel like you should never share personal things with others and that includes your friends as it can backfire or they can use it against you. The only person I share everything with is my Husband I think he deserves to know everything. My parents, friends or other family members don't know about a lot of things as I prefer to keep it for myself.

[Smashingdoozy]

I dont keep secrets unless it's a temporary secret or something that someone has confided in me about themselves that doesn't harm or hurt them or others

[whistlingwh0res]

Men want dumb girl with lots of money so if you don’t have money and smart, you still won’t get their attention. So it doesn’t make much of difference.

[Asker]

Not always true.

[whistlingwh0res]

Yeah if you are smart and poor they will want you to run the busine$$ for them.

[whistlingwh0res]

If you are dumb and poor they will sell you out like a pimp. If you are smart rich then they will beg

[Asker]

I come under the category of smart and poor 😊

[whistlingwh0res]

Yeah you are more likely meet someone who rely on your business or if you get rich by yourself you will be resentful and bitch at all mankind for the rest of your life

[Asker]

I reserve my bitchiness only for very special men 😊

[slatyb]

If something is told to you in confidence, then you should keep that secret.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I guess people who say they don't keep secrets are being, lol, secretive lol 😋😋😋

[FuqUFggt]

No. It's best to lie so much that if you needed to ever tell the truth nobody would ever believe you. People are weak. You aren't.

[Djaay]

No... Be straight up and honest always , people will trust your judgements and will then began to put wrong where it belongs.

[theycallme_jd]

It's great often to keep secrets, you should be able to know the limits with sharing. If you share too much you're no longer having your privacy and yourself.

[Skyros]

It’s never good or right, however it can be beneficial in ideal circumstances. I’m not condoning keeping secrets by what I’ve said, just merely addressing both sides of the coin.

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

Some people have to mind that they want

[Agape93]

I do