My cousin makes me feel bad if I dont text her everyday and all day long what should I do?

[Anonymous]

If i go a day or too she will always ask why i didn't text or if im having a life crisis which i not as im busy with friends and work etc

[FuqUFggt]

I have a cousin that is on the spectrum. I don't know what that spectrum is or what that means. I know she isn't capable of living on her own. She insists on calling me every week and gets mad if i don't answer. I'm 10 years older than her and have a busy life with kids and work. It's a chore to talk to her some times but I love her and she is the only person I know in my vast social life that calls me before I call them. Some one loves you. Text your cousin everyday. Otherwise you are spending your time texting people that aren't as worthy of your attention

[Asker]

She’s 45 and she will sometimes cry that she doesn’t have a partner it’s not as easy texting her as you think

[FuqUFggt]

Try having a weekly call with an autistic person with a room temperature IQ that's whole life is in an assisted living house. You know haw fast she runs out of things to talk about? A normal person aged 45 that is lonely soumds. easier to talk to. You are ungrateful amd don't deserve her attention or love.