I have a feeling someone I considered a good friend just faked the whole friendship and was just interested in being friends with me because I know this famous guy who knows this other famous guy she is obsessed with.
So, this guy I know - I was friends with him for +10 years, and things basically went down the drain after he got a new girlfriend. Long story short, he started behaving like an idiot and tossed me aside.
My friend (who I met after I met the guy) of course knew about the whole situation, and things suddenly changed in December when I told her about the last straw with guy. She basically disappeared after that. I checked in with her and she said she was having some issues with her meds. It made sense and I kept checking in from time to time. Then one day I asked if she was going to an event she had told me about, and she said she had already made plans with someone when he told me about it. This hurt because I felt set aside once again, and she got mad because I should've asked about the event earlier and not expect her to chase me about it (?). She sent me a scolding audio note I couldn't even finish because it triggered me. I told her I wasn't doing good because of what happened with the guy. She hated that. Next day we cleared things up on the phone, but there were things she said I didn't like. She spoke about the guy with a lot of hatred, told me I shouldn't be so affected about the situation with him, and said "this person isn't real".
I met her once after our argument and things seemed normal. But they aren't. She doesn't text me anymore. I've texted her a couple of times, but she never texts first. So now I'm starting to think she only wanted to be friends because I know the guy, and now that she sees she has zero chances (not that she ever had them, c'mon) with this other guy, she doesn't care anymore. She hates the famous guy now, and when she said "this person isn't real", I wonder - is she the unreal one? What do you think? Thank you.
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Sounds like you're the one that needs to be on meds
Care to elaborate why?
I don't know you mentioned is she the unreal one. Didn't quite make sense. Why don't you just leave her alone. Leave eachother alone. It's unfortunate but she doesn't sound like she wants to be friends with you. With or without the famous guy
It does sound like she was just friends with you because of the famous guy
But this story sounds so fake ๐๐๐
What I meant was, was she projecting when she said the guy is not real? Is she not real and all her friendship has been a lie? Anyway, I am in fact leaving her alone. I'm not doing one-sided friendships.
The story isn't fake. Unfortunately.
Why did you say "yea right" like she doesn't have a chance with said famous guy but you wanna be her friend real bad?๐๐
She probably doesn't like your attitude
Well, she really doesn't have a chance with the other guy. What do you want me to say? ๐คท I'm being realistic. He is married with kids and lives in another country. And the guy I know doesn't even know him well - they just worked together years ago. And no attitude here because I'm not saying any of this to her. I'm just wondering things. We had a good, close friendship for years.
Fake
This isn't fake at all. Why would I spend my time writing something that isn't true? ๐คฆ I wrote here in hopes of getting a few honest opinions, but I see this is full of trolls. ๐
I meant Fake Friendship
Oh, sorry, my bad! ๐ I overreacted. Another commenter said the story sounds fake and I thought you meant the same.
Send her an anonymous gift basket from Bath and Body Works, but spike the shampoo with clothing dye!
WTF? xD
What famous guy?
I'm not saying. This is irrelevant.