When talking with your siblings, is it "our mum/dad" or "your mum/dad"?

[ariadneR]

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s just “mom” and “dad” when speaking of those who raised us. I sometimes refer to her biological father as “your father”, but i think she usually says “biological”. She never knew him.
The one that trips me up is talking to her kids about her or our mother. “Your mom” vs “my sister”. “My mom” vs “your grandmother”. Sometimes i have to closely examine the context before i know which one to use, but i’m always concerned i’m not conveying the message accurately. The neuroses of a word nerd. Ell oh ell!

[Bklynbadboy12]

Our mum and dad

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thank for the MHO boo😘

[Billlewis]

Here, its 'Mom and Dad'

[hahahmm]

Never used the phrase "our mom/dad" because in the context of a talk it's always obvious who we're talking about so "mom/dad" is all that is said. Also nobody would ever say, "your mom/dad". When it comes to your own kids or young relatives it's different. If a relative does something unwanted then as a joke you say, "your daughter" or "your nephew" to indicate some distance between the kid & yourself.

[RingOfFire]

It depends on the context of what you say. For example (when speaking to your sibling):

"It's not right for you to say things like that about your mom and dad."

"Our mom and dad have always been there for us when we need them."

[DizzyDesii]

We dont say our nor your. We just say “Ma did/said this/that”

[HelpfulWoman]

"mum/dad" though i guess i don't really do this anymore XD
now it's just "in law's name"

[RebelinSteel]

I don’t include we or our, as when talking to my sister or brother it’s fairly obvious when I say mum or dad it’s means our parents.

[Sasquach]

I tell my siblings they're adopted, so I always say "my mum/dad"

[12karen]

Haha, it's your mom or my mom/dad, never our mom/dad

[Nik1hil]

Just made it , Only for you!

[Kaneki05]

You only need to specify when it's not about your own.

[sheikalana]

Me and my brother have the same parents and they're mom and dad to us.

[jahaims]

Neither. You just say mom or dad. Dad said this. Mom did that

[Kingofkings1992]

Just mom and dad. All means the same thing. Makes no difference.

[NathanDavis]

same as @DizzyDesii

[bowenw]

Just mum and dad.

[NamerOfStars]

It depends on how angry at them I am.

[AviatorTom]

It's "our" ... why would it be different?

[Yannae]

It's just MUM AND DAD

[handsomelad70]

It was always "Mom and Dad."

[OddBeMe]

I have no sibling that can speak.

[CubaPirate]

As I'm an only child I really don't know

[Peetopico]

It's mom and dad I guess :/

[LiZiqiLiZiqi]

Of course it's ours,

[dudeinohio]

Our.

[eagle1951]

our.