What to expect?

[Gopackers02]

So me and my friend had a little argument where she blocked me. And I blocked her in response. We didn’t talk one bit for 2 1/2 weeks even working the same shift because I thought she didn’t want to hear from me. I texted her a gif to show a friend I’m blocked and it went through I was shocked to say the least. She said she never saw my messages and said she was waiting for me to talk in person. And she doesn’t want to lose me over someone else. She agreed to talk this coming Monday. But I can’t wait anymore and asked her to talk today during her lunch but am kind of nervous and not sure what to expect.

[rosemilk]

don't worry too much. just please express your feelings so she knows. and listen to her feelings as well. clarify the argument, if there's anything that's left unsaid, come to terms with it, agree or disagree, and then move on from that argument and continue on as friends

[Gopackers02]

So when she came out she smiled and waved which is nice to see because she hasn’t done that in 2 weeks. We hugged and I told her I missed talking to her and she said she missed me as well. I said sorry about everything. She unblocked me on apps and we’re basically back to normal which is what I hoped for but I feel like we’re better friends because now I know she values the friendship and I know what not to do ever again.

[rosemilk]

yes arguments, when resolved, definitely bring people closer together. glad it turned out well for you

[Anonymous]

She probably just wants to smooth things out with you and make amends. Just be sure to be honest with her about your thought process or emotions, how you felt about the argument, if you want to reconcile and go back to being friends. Remember not to come across as dismissive or defensive tho!

[Gent207-2]

What the hell could you two argue over to cause you to behave like high schoolers?

You are two grown ass adults deal with it

[Gopackers02]

So basically she got mad I drove a girl that was mean to her and she doesn’t like to a place before hanging out with her. She said I chose the girl over her and got really upset. After a while I realized she blocked my number and I got mad because I literally treated her like a queen on her birthday and I treat her great. And she repays like this. So that’s why I blocked and I never block unless reason.

[Gent207-2]

Jesus
Sorry i asked