My dad got mad at my mom for buying me heels why would he?

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DannyUk2017 · Accepted Answer

Your Dad didn't got Mad at your Mom, for buying you Heels... He got Mad at you as Grew so fast and despite the Age you became a Woman in your whole Glory... He can see that Physically you're a Woman (that is sexualised in the mind of a grownup), but in your head/mind you're still A Child! A teen, A too young Flower that he doesn't want to see it "fading away" too fast... He just want you to be his Little Girl, until he cannot "hold you back anymore"... Sadly these days Girls & Boys are growing up Too Fast! Like looking at your picture (if is really you) you look like a 19 year old. From "boys" pov you're ready! But from people that Know you... Mom, Dad, Bro, sis, aunt, uncle... They Know You are Not ready, you're still a child for them... I have a 17 year Daughter but i never allowed her... Extravagant Clothes, Piercings, Tattoos, i told her after 18 she is Free to Live life just the way she pleases but Before that, all them "material things, that she thinks are cool" are not allowed, because from a "simple piercing" can end up looking different, and also that can "pull" some other problems with this "cool looking", and sometimes there are "lines" that Once crossed, there is very slim chance or none to Come back from.🤷‍♂️

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I side with your mom.
Your dad is being a conservative prude. He can't handle the fact that you are becoming a woman. A lot of dads are that way with their female children. They think it's their job go "protect" them.

But your mom knows best from a female perspective. She went through it herself. She knows that holding you back will force you to rebel and eventually stop listening to her advice. So she is gradually loosening the apron strings to let you grow up step by step.

All you dad can think about is what a horn dog he was when he was young, and he doesn't want men thinking about you sexually. But men will, no matter what.

So, instead of hiding your femininity, what you need to do is learn how to be a discerning woman and not get taken advantage of. You have to learn how to use your brain. And that's where your mother can help.

Cutegirl06 · Accepted Answer

He doesn't want you to grow up too fast! He wants you to stay his little girl. But you'll always be his little girl no matter how old you are. He sounds like a good dad to me, not saying that your mom isn't a good mom, she is looking at the situation from a female perspective. I'm sure they both want what's best for you!!

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Bc you're young and he wants you to stay his little girl till he has to give you away to some guy he gets cranky about for "stealing you away" (your husband). That's how dads work.

OddBeMe · Answer

Woah you’re 13. (Dad hat on)

As a man prob your dad’s age, I’d be concerned with other men and boys looking at you sexually. Honestly it’s gonna happen anyway.

Personally, I don’t see a big problem with allowing young ladies your age certain autonomy to wear makeup and heels (like to church or fancy dress). To school seems meaningless, just to draw attention from boys. Which again you’re doing anyway. So compromise?

I’m sure the issue of short skirts as arisen. I have seen girls I think you age in booty shorts in stores wondering who let them dress like that. Again…dad hat.

I’d also take your confidence in consideration. My parents understood i may get some confidence wearing certain clothes. Part of school life.

MisterWack · Answer

Maybe it is complicated, like low on money / saving up for a big purchase, spent clothing budget yet went over budget to get you heels which meant he has to take an expense somewhere else depending on amount of income, etc.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would say because he thinks it´s inappropriate as he considers something that adult women wear. So he worries that older guys might approach you thinking you´re older than you actually are.

normalice · Answer

My guess is heels make girls look taller and thus older, which gives unsavory men an excuse to act like they didn't know you were still a child.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

ask him... he knows all the answers... we can only guess

AviatorTom · Answer

He probably doesn't want you to wear heels until you get older. He knows that heels are bad for your feet and calves, which are still growing.

4ngelic · Answer

he thinks your too young for them. he could be concerned also it could make you look older or more sexual to older teens and adult men

meepmeeperton · Answer

You’re supposedly 13 with that profile picture… alright.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Probably concerned about modesty. If you really are 13, that's a bit young to be wearing shoes that are designed to accentuate your womanhood.

Staximus · Answer

Because it means you are growing up and not a little kid anymore, and maybe he has not come to terms with that yet.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Maybe because he thought you should have gotten a pole first?

CieloAzul · Answer

If you are really 13 y/o, you don’t need to wear heels.

HotManPlayboy · Answer

Maybe your dad would buy it. He got mad because he was jealous 😂

jahaims · Answer

Heels are to increase the level of sexual attraction you have. A 13 year old is way too young.

genericname85 · Answer

cause wearing heels is female mating behavior. you're not old enough to be mating.

Kelly6 · Answer

@kimberlee2 heels at age 13 is totally ok

Unit1 · Answer

You'll find out if you ask him. Probably.

zombiewoof · Answer

He still thinks you are his little girl

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

I've learned not to fight with women

Regal58 · Answer

He thinks you're growing up too fast!

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Lmao fake account

Anonymous · Answer

FFS, you're 13.

My dad got mad at my mom for buying me heels why would he?

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