My dad got super mad at my mom because she let me dye my hair why?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Honestly I don’t know. I don’t think any of us know. I mean it fits. It’s cute. Goes well w your pretty face. Now if you had died it something like hot pink or lime green then I could see why he would be kind of upset. But I think it looks good. Most of us me. Would have thought it was probably natural as we don’t really key in on things like that. I think it’s good. Maybe talk to your dad, ask him why he’s upset. Maybe he feels as though you’re growing up to quick who know. His little girl isn’t so little anymore. Is he the co trolling type? It could be a lot of things, talk to him.

[ohsheeT]

I think all dads get this feeling in their stomach when their little girl is growing up and is very beautiful and he knows that you're going to attract men and he doesn't like that he wants you to be happy but at the same time he doesn't want you to be LOL I don't know it's hard to explain I take all that back he does want you to be happy but he doesn't want a thousand men trying to pick up on you

[Staximus]

Because he is a crazy control freak and doesn't realize that is something girls like to do. He also doesn't realize that you have to grow up and aren't going to be a little kid forever, and him and your mom aren't going to decide how you how you should look anymore. It's not like she let you run off and join the fucking circus or something. Tell him "sorry, but it's my hair and it's the way I want it to look for now."

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe your dad thinks you should be encouraged to be happy with yourself as you are, instead of chasing after some elusive standard of beauty created by the MSM, Hollywood, peer pressure, and Cosmo.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because hair dye damages hair, and if done enough times causes hairloss, and you aren't educated enough to know that yet, but I bet your mom is.

[Asker]

u saying im dumb?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats certainly a possibility.

You* I'm*

[DEXTER_LIVES]

I guess he feels like he's losing his little girl.

You're changing and some dads have trouble adapting.

[Asker]

im always his little girl.

[DEXTER_LIVES]

I guess.
My son is 15 and he wanted to travel with friends this summer. I didn't let him go because I still see him as this little kid holding my hand.
Everybody gets mad at me, but they don't understand how scary it is to let your kids grow up.
Maybe your dad will just get used to it, he has to.

[Asker]

:'( hopefully

[jshm2]

Doesn't look too good. Try something better.

[Asker]

really?

[Paul09]

Dye? Or bleach? Well I understand, your natural dark hair is a million times hotter. Everyone is bleach blonde these days. Everyone wants the LA look Pfft...

[Asker]

I don't know what its called?

[Paul09]

Dark hair brown eyes is the way to go. Not sure why people always need to change their gorgeous nautral look for. No need for filters. Confidence is being happy in your own skin.

[20yearsolder]

Have no idea, ask your dad why you got mad. You'll have the answer

[Dargil]

If it looks like that, he had no reason. Pink or blue is different.

[Asker]

it looks good?

[Dargil]

I think it does.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

He likely told you no, so you went to your mother, out of defiance and she went behind his back

[Asker]

how u know?

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

i know women

[Havthrills]

I think it looks good. Don't know why he would be mad.

[Mangospacho]

Probably cuz it costs a ton of money. That’s all I can think of.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Good question, ask him

[FilmGuy93]

I don't know. I think the color looks good on you.

[Wise4myage]

He will get over it.

[Asker]

he hit me today with a belt :'(

[Wise4myage]

Wow, that sucks. I am sorry that had to happen to you.

[AndrésC64]

Dad sounds very controlling.

[Asker]

he is :/

[BarryLiverstone]

Because she didn’t talk to him about it first

[BarryLiverstone]

Did he like how it came out?

[Asker]

he says i look like a whore

[BarryLiverstone]

That must not feel good to hear. Has he insulted you before?

[Asker]

yah he calls me a whore a lot.
im a virgin

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s unusual for your dad to insult you like that. Does he call your friends whores as well? Maybe he doesn’t understand the word

[Asker]

nope I never had friends over.
and he calls my two older sisters that. but they are one 21 and has 4 baby daddiss the other one 16 N has 2

[BarryLiverstone]

Right so nothing new. He’s used to insulting his daughters and you all must not be phased anymore

[BarryLiverstone]

Are you older than the 16 year old?

[Asker]

yah I was just shocked that he yelled at my mom he never does that.

[Asker]

im 13

[BarryLiverstone]

He yelled at her in front of you, that’s the difference. He has yelled at her before but made sure you couldn’t hear him

[BarryLiverstone]

How did you feel seeing him yell at her?

[Asker]

i was scared

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s an understandable emotion when he yells at her. Do you feel like it’s partially your fault?

[BarryLiverstone]

Sorry you asked the question and I keep on asking you more things to understand. I’ll stop, you can follow me if you wanna let me know

[Asker]

this is the onlu time it has happen so i feel like its my fault

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s not

[Asker]

u sure? he yelled cause she let me die my hair

[BarryLiverstone]

Sure about?

[Asker]

it not being my fault

[BarryLiverstone]

She didn’t tell him that she let you die it. That’s why he yelled

[Asker]

oh k :/

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you feel better knowing it’s not your fault?

[Asker]

nope :/ I heard him hit her :'(

[BarryLiverstone]

What?

[Asker]

my dad hit my mom..

[BarryLiverstone]

Gotcha

[BarryLiverstone]

How did the hair turn out?

[Asker]

bro :/ i feel so bad :'( pic my hair dyed.

[soe11]

He should not be

[Anonymous]

that's bleach, not hair dye.

[Twalli]

He probably thinks you are too young to do it.

[maximumpower]

Ask HIM, not people who don't know any of you.

[jimmy2]

Changed your looks are you a daddy girl

[Asker]

not?

[Anonymous]

Just stupid dad

[Asker]

okay y..

[Opinion Owner]

Your hair looks great

[Asker]

thank u (:

[Anonymous]

He prefers your natural color.