How can I make out going friends who are not into this things?

[Anonymous]

badmouthing others , gossip, over tlaking people , drugs, Sport crazy.
A bit about myself
I love Hiking, traveling , Rock climbing, Jogging, watching plays, anthropology, Video games, anime, Video games, air soft, Window shopping,, music , camping and helping others. Im a very kind hearted person I enjoy listening to others, helping others and all of the things above. All of my current friends over talk me none stop talk shit about others and do nothing to improve their Lifes. I have two close friends one enjoy working out so I talk to him 247 and the other never leaves his house. I jave zero conversation skills since I haven't had anyone to talk to till now and am sick of it.

I have even start gossping and doing all the things I hate just to have friends.

[Anonymous]

I’ve had to cold turkey ignore and not interact or associate directly or indirectly with anyone that brings me down. I’m not full of myself either. It’s just they cope differently or not at all, with life. They don’t improve theirselves and yet they always have turmoil going on, that with their drugs and booze. Or they all live off their man’s income, I make my own - so again, I can't relate to them when it’s work talk or juggling kids and working.



I’m not judging them in this case but I’m mentioning things that simply don’t jive for me.


I’m alone, a lot because of this. But I’m not desperate for attention or companionship. I’m fine on my own but it has its down falls but it has pros more than cons, if that makes sense.


I’m in a similar boat Sir.

[Asker]

Im sorry to hear this

[Opinion Owner]

Is it a bad thing? I don’t know otherwise. People often say similarly to how you just have. I guess I haven’t registered the bummer aspect when it’s all I know.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Are you sure it’s talking shit and not just venting?

[Asker]

No it's 1000% shit talking

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So what’s the difference between venting about someone and shit talking them?