My sister and I are nothing alike, looks wise and personality. She’s 6 years older than me and she started dating young ( lots of bad experiences), I on the hand have never dated and I’m looking for the right person. I do get approached by guys a lot and I am attractive and I get a lot of compliments for my looks so it’s not that I can’t date but I haven’t found a person that I would like to date. She keeps making remarks about how she’s prettier as she’s a blonde and I’m a brunette and now I like a guy and she keeps trying to prove she can get him without actually saying, she tries to be in the same place as he is so he can see her and ask her out and tries to grab his attention just to show me she can, she doesn’t actually want him. She keeps telling me that she could have any guy she wants and indirectly pointing out that I’ve never dated anyone. She’s narcissistic and selfish and acts immaturely all the time, I love her but she keeps hurting my feelings and pointing out my flaws and insecurities.
How do I deal with my sister?
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Whenever a guy that she doesn’t like approaches her, she tells him I don’t want you but you can have my sister if you want.
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This is spiritual. You need to bind the spirit of envy, narcissism and rivalry. This is only possible when you are a believer and understand what Jesus did for you on the cross. Without this, you will just continue to respond physically and the demonic entities responsible will just continue. This has been painted as a normal thing in society but it is not! I've seen this sort of stuff before and also seen the demon manifest to try to get the person to stop using scripture against it. Your sister is under the influence of the unseen and the bad relationships are likely partly where she got some of the 'entities' from. We may ignore the unseen world, but it is not ignoring us...
Even though you may be an unbeliever, you could still try something like speaking out loud, Psalm 91 over yourself for protection and using your name and your sisters though. He might have mercy...
This sounds toxic. Sad that she is this way.