Do you feel sad on or around your birthday and why?

[Anonymous]

My birthday is approaching and I’ve noticed small ways I’ve aged. I’ve started getting lines in my breasts that can be seen without a bra and my boob skin is looser just at 26. I’ve reflected on the last year and I thought about what I learned. For one, sometimes you have to distance yourself a little for your own happiness and sanity. Having friends become too busy to talk at times while living at a distance and having an ex that took my time and kindness for granted showed me to not always be so available. And that made me sort of sad though I’m happy to have the realizations.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I feel sad because I feel as if I haven’t accomplished anything in my life, and my love life is a mess. It's doom and gloom, so to speak. My birthday is November 8th, right around the corner.

[Asker]

You still have so much life ahead. We both do, but it’s valid to feel that way. Just know it can do a whole 180! my bday is tomorrow. I hope you feel differently by then and can enjoy it

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you, girl, and hoping your birthday is wonderful to you. Try not to stress. I know it's easier said than done, but you've got this!

[PeterLegg91]

My nephews birthday is on the 8th and MY mums is on the 20th :)

[Opinion Owner]

@PeterLegg91 Nice! So you guys have a lot to celebrate. Save me a piece of cake. 🍰😅

[PeterLegg91]

Save me a piece of yours too , deal? 😆

[Opinion Owner]

@PeterLegg91 Deal! I’ll save you a big slice. 🤗

[PeterLegg91]

Thank you 😊

[Opinion Owner]

@PeterLegg91 No problem. 😌

[Anonymous]

Happy Birthday! Don't worry about a few boob lines--generally it means you've got a nice sizable pair that's a treat for the eyes, hands AND mouth! lol! And most every guy will focus on the overall impression of your girls!

I hear you on the friends getting busy and relationships changing. That's definitely part of early careers and people establishing (or trying to establish) lifelong partnerships. Just keep at it and enjoy the ride!

[Asker]

Thank you!!🩷

[Asker]

It turned out to be a great weekend

[Opinion Owner]

That's great to hear! What did you and your fabulous boobs get up to to celebrate? ;)

[Asker]

lol I took myself out and wore a dress that flaunted them, went mini golfing the next day, and then the pumpkin patch. Had a date but that got cancelled! My friends and family really showed up for me

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow! Hahaha! Where did you go out in this dress that flaunted them? :D. What did you get up to?

[Opinion Owner]

I LOVE mini-golf! lol! It's a super fun date activity too! ;)

[BarryLiverstone]

Not sure if it’s sadness, but a time for reflection. What do you mean by distance yourself?

[Asker]

Just not be available all the time and expecting the same when sometimes people can’t be there as much as you would like

[BarryLiverstone]

Ohh ya, that’s a part of the balance of life. We can’t be available for everyone 24/7. That’s only going to create anxiety. Are you happy it will be your bday?

[Asker]

Yeah exactly! That’s something I’m working on. And one day I’ll be in those shoes too. I am grateful to be seeing another year. I think I have a good weekend ahead

[BarryLiverstone]

Awesome. Bday weekends are the best! People have the time and space to help you celebrate and be grateful for life. Did you ask for all the things you wanted?

[Nikki1989]

No, I don't think about it, let alone celebrate it.

[PeterLegg91]

No never, but im 40 in 7 years time 😳