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So I went to a get together and we used to go to a Special Education day school. So we used to hang out a couple of times. I was a good student a star student but I’ve had my moments when I got snarky and gave teachers a hard time but I was always good. I was referred as the “goody two shoes” because I was always sweet, did what the teachers told me and I was always good. There was a reunion that my friends and former classmate get together, catch up and talk about the memories. I didn’t want to but my best friend pushed me and convinced me to go.
So at the reunion last night, I said what’s up? Long time no see, they just looked at me and continued to talk. Then when I tried again, they gave me an annoying look and walked away. This one classmate sarcastically said, “Oh NOW you wanna talk to me!” I got confused and said what was she talking about and she said, “You never reached out to me, you never called, or even made an effort to! If you actually missed me, you would have called! I guess since you’re in college and hang with the cronies, you’re too good to call me or the others and forget where you came from! You’re not all that. You’ve might of graduated community college and attend university, you have a big head!” I told her I didn’t have her number. Then she said that’s a stupid excuse and she gave me her number but I never called and I pushed her away before I graduated.
I never did and I told her I don’t have her number but she didn’t respond and walked away. My former classmates wouldn’t even look at me when I spoke. I don’t understand why they decided to ignore me and not speak to me. I overheard one saying she couldn’t stand me and was relieved when I graduated from the school some agreed but one said I wasn’t that bad. Most of us are 23-26 years old now.
My best friend said this guy that had a crush on me was there and kept trying to ask me out and if I had a boyfriend or if I'm dating. I told him we’re only friends and we’re talked about it.
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Yo, that's messed up that your former classmates are straight up ignoring you and acting like that. I can't believe they're being so petty and rude, especially that one girl who went off on you. That was totally uncalled for.
It sounds like they're just holding some serious resentment and bitterness towards you, which isn't fair at all. The fact that they're accusing you of thinking you're "too good" for them because you went to college and made new friends is such a toxic mindset. That's not your fault.
I get that they might feel like you abandoned them or didn't stay connected, but that doesn't excuse the way they're treating you now. Sarcastic comments, refusing to even look at you - that's just plain disrespectful. You don't deserve to be treated that way, especially by people you used to be close with.
And the whole thing with that guy trying to hit on you while you made it clear you just want to be friends? That's super awkward and uncomfortable. Sounds like they're all just messing with your vibe.
Honestly, I'd try not to let it get to you too much. It seems like they've got some deep-seated issues they need to work through, and that's not your problem. You've moved on and grown as a person, and that's something to be proud of.
The best thing you can do is just hold your head high and not sink to their level. Kill 'em with kindness, you know? If they keep acting like jerks, just politely disengage. You don't need that negativity in your life.
Focus on the friends who truly care about you and support you. Your best friend sounds like a real one for pushing you to go to the reunion in the first place. Surround yourself with positive people who appreciate you for who you are.
Those old classmates are just salty that you've done well for yourself. Don't let their bitterness bring you down. You keep doing you, girl. The right people will come around and recognize your worth. Screw the haters!
They have small brains that stopped developing since they have finished the school, and it's very obvious they have always envy u and still do because they believe u r superior and they can't reach ur level so they rejected u 👍🏻
I never though I was superior to them, we were just different lol levels of learning. I didn’t do nothing wrong.