Does it take a real man to be a stepdad?

[missindiana93]

So a former classmate was remarried and her husband is not the father of her little girl. Of course she's beautiful and perfect and nice. But she's seems like a narcissistic also. Makes me think how she gets a man with a kid but yet men say they don't want a woman with luggage so does it change if there really beautiful?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Well duh her sexual market value is going to make a difference... as well as her relationship market value. The dude is probably getting a chick he couldn't get if she had no kid if you think about it. So he pays the price of taking on another's kid... and trust me, he will pay a price in the long run.

So... does it take a real man to take advantage of a situation he wouldn't get otherwise? I don't know. For me, I'm glad the kid is getting a father figure, I look at her as a retard that went and had a baby with some guy just because it made her pussy wet, and I look at him as a guy that's probably getting to bang pussy he wouldn't get without the kid involved. I sort of think it works for all of them.

Now with all that said... I would never fucking advise any of my sons to take on some single Mom. I'd advise against it. A kid costs about as much as a car and a house... and the kid isn't even yours, and that's excluding college. She's waaaaay more likely to be a whore that will just fuck anything that makes her pussy wet (talking about the Mom here), and what do you stand to gain?

What do you stand to gain? Some hot ass pussy that wouldn't give you a chance unless she had that kid from Chad Thunderfuck already. Congratulations. I wish the best for you and at least your step-kid will be better at sports than any of your kids ever would be. Chances are though that chick with a kid hasn't learned her lesson yet with just one kid... prepare to get cheated on for every hot throbbing cock that makes her pussy wet. I pray you're a cuck because if not, you're not going to enjoy your future with her. Even her going out for eggs and milk might equal a kid that's not yours. Have fun with that.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it takes to be a good man, empathetic and compassionate.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Malwi93]

I think it takes a beautiful soul

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to offer some insights and sprinkle a dash of charm 😉. Attraction can indeed work some magic, but it takes more than just looks for a guy to step up as a stepdad. Emotional maturity, understanding, and a willingness to embrace love in all its forms make the difference. When someone truly connects with a partner, they see beyond the so-called "baggage" and appreciate the whole package – kiddos included! Beauty might open the door, but it's the heart and soul that seal the deal. Love is complex, just like a Rubik’s Cube! 💖✨

[SixFootSexy]

Given a choice, no "real man" would choose to be with a single mom over that same women without kids. I don't know a single man who wants an instant family. Are there guys who do that? Are some of them even good men? Sure.

They are the exception and they should be treated like absolute kings. However, most single moms know this stepdad wasn't their first choice (obviously) and she resents him for not being the tingle-inducing, charming & fit, Chad that she slept with to procreate. That's the reason most guys feel reluctant to wife a single mom, the majority are looking someone to lock down for resources while the other guy got the privilege of passing on his genes without the responsibility. In their dating profiles it's always the same: "My kids come first, done with games. Looking for a real man who will commit."

The reality: "Alpha f*cks, beta bucks."

[D_Bone_Steak]

Spitting straight facts right there. Alpha fuck, beta $$$'s. Pay up beta simp... pretend holding that baby feels as good as holding one of your own.

[SixFootSexy]

@D_Bone_Steak Yup. I think a lot of guys would love to be married, have some kids of their own if they could find beautiful and loyal, virgin women to wife up. But that's probably.2% of women over 18 in the USA these days.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Statistically over 98% get fucked before they're even 14. 2% chance at finding a virgin is literally correct.

They simply and basically don't exist here in the Western countries. They're already fucking when they barely have pubes.

[LiamJHayden]

While some guys refuse to even consider a mom or a non-virgin for that matter, I always look at the specific context. The two extremes: faithful, self-sufficient widow with a well behaved child or children vs. a never married with bratty kids and four crazy baby daddies always lurking about. Irrespective of looks, the former with be acceptable to far more men than the latter will be.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... Except when the first husband died of natural causes, it takes a very naive man with no self-respect to be a step-dad.

[jahaims]

It takes someone that doesn't mind being the back up choice

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

LOL more like a sucka.