How do you handle perfectionist?

[linka_pat307]

My twin sister is a perfectionist to the point I wonder if we are really twins.. I mean when she is the kitchen or doing something everything has to be so perfect. She hates it when people don't things perfectly or disorganise what she worked on. She wants everyone to be like her every time. That is one cause of our argument.. I just do things as long as they are done on time and well

[ohsheeT]

You have to remind her there's two sides to every story and there's two of you so one's going to be perfected one's not going to be one's going to be happy one's not going to be
So what I'm saying when I say two sides to everything you have God devil right wrong yes no hello goodbye positive negative love hate you have to experience one of them to understand the other one so it's okay that your sister is a perfectionist and you're not because one day you will be and she won't be if that makes sense. It's like you need to fail before you can succeed failure is succeeding because you can't succeed without it so no matter what goes on in your guys's life you might be one way on something one day and she won't want any part to do with it a month later she might want something to do with it and you won't be into it anymore it's just part of life I'm a Virgo I'm supposed to be a perfectionist I say forget that I go out of my way not to be a perfectionist in life when it comes to work yes I like to write my name on it when I'm finished

[NicholasRedone]

Its what I'm lol 😆

I find when things gel with like minded folks, we are two peas in a pod. ☺️ When it's not, it's a shame for me and a shame for them 😲 tis all out of sync and no balance

[12karen]

ohh, yeah it can cause a lot of argument.


my sis isn't a perfectionist but if she wants me to do everything in her way and expect me to be like her, I'll just tell her to do it herself or tell her to shut up and walk away.

[linka_pat307]

Is that being a little rude

[12karen]

it's my little sister so I don't really care.

But if it's someone else, I'll be patient for a while or I'll divide the tasks. You can start and she finishes, so visually it'll be how she wants it.

[princeofromance]

You tell them that nobody or nothing is perfect in life.

[NicholasRedone]

Its that strive though 🥰

[NathanDavis]

I joke about it... and then dodge the pans thrown at me

[bowenw]

Tell her to do things the way she likes and you will do them your way.

[MK1997]

I can't

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't they annoy me