What is your worst nightmare when it comes to how your kids turn out in life?

[HawkPerception]

[iCuddleU]

My absolute worst nightmare would be raising kids who are like... rude, entitled, and just ugh. Imagine putting your whole heart into raising them, only for them to grow up with zero kindness or respect? Like, no thank you!! I want my babies to be good humans, not the kind of people who make waiters cry or think the world revolves around them.

And honestly? If they had zero ambition or just floated through life with no passion, that would break my heart. I don’t need them to be rich or famous, but like... care about something, babe!! Chase your dreams! Be excited about life! Just don’t be that person who complains about everything but does nothing to change it.

Oh, and if they ever treat me like just their mom and not, like, their safe space, their bestie, their home? Yeah, that would wreck me. I carried you for nine months, don’t act like I’m just some lady now!!!

Ya know?

[iCuddleU]

Thanks for most helpful girl!

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I have a lot of nightmares when it comes to that, LOL. :D

This is my personal opinion, but honestly my worst is if they decided to do a sex change or joined an extreme movement of any kind, liberal or conservative. Sex changes are horrific and my heart would shatter watching them tear their body apart. Extremist movements are frightening because the power of relationship and love is stripped away by triggering our worst fears and isolating us from those who really love us.

Sometimes being a parent makes me feel like a blind person trying to paint a canvas with no feedback until it's too late, and then I find I was painting a wall instead of the canvas...

[HawkPerception]

Although I don't have kids of my own yet, those are my thoughts exactly. As always, love your opinions!

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@HawkPerception Appreciate you! :D

[Apple1996]

Because I have sons i often fear they will turn out to be misogynistic, fall for that red pill BS, just overall have no empathy. I know I'm doing my best raising them to fight against these things but society, other men sometimes can get into boys brains which can fuck them up later on when they no longer think mom is cool to talk to anymore.

[HawkPerception]

Mom always has your back and men will never hate all women because there will always be women that they love and respect. But A LOT of women in the west don't deserve that respect nowadays. There is SOME truth to red pill stuff. Some of it is too extremist and as you said... BS. But most red pill stuff comes from a place of frustration that the majority of men have.

[Apple1996]

Everyone deserve basic respect. That's just silly to think otherwise. The red pull stuff is all nonsense. Can't say I've ever heard anything realistic coming from those online podcast bros lol. They're creating more problems than solutions

[HawkPerception]

Everyone deserves basic respect until they prove they don't deserve it.

And as I said, it's not all nonsense. You seem a little close minded to issues men go through. And they're not always creating problems. They're addressing the issues of the mentality of many women in the western world.

[Apple1996]

Any dudes talking about western women are just mad because women have rights and can live a life without men if they choose to lol. I'm saying this type of mindset is creating problems. The men themselves I'm sure have a amazing side hidden in them but the red pill stuff is holding them back with having a negative mindset. They're never preaching any kindness or love into the world

[Apple1996]

Like there's other groups i don't belive in like religious stuff but most of them are at least preaching good things and making their people better so I wouldn't hate if it my kids became religious. If my kids became red pill it'd be a issue because their is no postive side to it. At least from what I see

[IslaTheWitch]

if they become very sick... or hurt beyond the point of healing (physically or mentally)... or unable to provide for themselves...

the rest are just their choices, and I respect them...

[Joshydavid25]

That they turn out like my siblings and I.. Or just not better than me..

[HawkPerception]

If they're happy, why would you care if they're better than you? Just asking honestly

[Joshydavid25]

Well they wouldn't be exactly happy in my place.. It's not the worse but it's not the best..

[dustybiker2]

Eh. We can only do our best. The rest is up to them.

I do love this picture. So lovely.

[DishLady]

That they mistakenly attach themselves to a con artist of a partner and not have what it takes to shake the loser off….

[RichA322]

If I would have kids:

1) they they are seriously ill, have an accident or that they die

2) that they become super evil

[Simslover92]

That they suffer from some kind of mental illness that makes them suicidal.

[KrakenAttackin]

I think the worst turnout would be a daughter who is a whore and a son who is a bum.

[PeachyPie93]

If they turned out to be criminals, huge whores or just failures in life who can't do well and take care of themselves. I will always push my kids to be much better than I ever could be.

[lightbulb27]

they aren't wise enough to hold onto what provided nor wise enough to train the children to hold onto it.

[genericname85]

for daughters: ends up on onlyfans selling pictures of her butthole. for sons: ending up being a dead beat father paying child support to the girl that left with his children.

[exitseven]

Either they become junkies or else they turn out to be liberals. I also am afraid my daughter will marry a bum.