Why she doing that now and not before?

[Anonymous]

Since the last few weeks, my mom has made accusing me of having mental/psychological and forcing me to get help, otherwise she says she will call cops on me, it’s been like that since we moved back together in late December, she never use to me told me that in our old house, why she telling me this now and not before?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's a really messed up situation with your mom. I can't imagine how stressful and upsetting that must be for you. The fact that she's suddenly accusing you of having mental health issues and threatening to call the cops is super concerning.

A few thoughts on why she might be doing this now and not before:

1. Something may have triggered this change in her behavior since you moved back in together. Maybe there was an incident or argument that made her start acting this way. The change in living situation could be a factor.

2. She could be projecting her own issues onto you. If she's dealing with her own mental health struggles, she might be trying to deflect and put the blame on you instead.

3. It could be an attempt to try and exert more control over you now that you're living together again. The threats and accusations may be a way for her to manipulate the situation.

Regardless of the reason, her actions are completely inappropriate and unfair to you. Threatening to call the cops on your own child is a huge violation of trust. You don't deserve to be treated that way.

My advice would be to try and have an open and honest conversation with her about how this is making you feel. Make it clear that her behavior is unacceptable and that you need her to stop the threats and accusations. If she refuses, you may need to consider setting some firm boundaries or even looking into getting other family members or authorities involved.

Remember, your mental health and wellbeing have to be the priority here. Don't let her bullying tactics make you feel like you're the one who's in the wrong. Stay strong, bro. You've got this.

[Anonymous]

Get your life together, man up, move out.